So Screwed

Well, last night I stayed out pretty late at a party. No big deal, I've done it before and my mom obviously gets mad but she gets over it. Not this time. She said this was the last straw and she doesn't want me living with her anymore. She said she can't take my "attitude" anymore and if I want to act the way I'm acting I have to find somewhere else to live. I have nowhere to go... I have no idea what to do.

😬

Oh dear. 😬

meh. she'll get over it. can't you stay w/ a friend till it all blows over?

That is quite a dilemma...my advice is ask for a bit of a talk one day when she's sober and in a reasonably good mood, over a cup of Liptons.

Originally posted by mysterio69
meh. she'll get over it. can't you stay w/ a friend till it all blows over?

trying to find someone right now

Originally posted by DarkC
That is quite a dilemma...my advice is ask for a bit of a talk one day when she's sober and in a reasonably good mood, over a cup of Liptons.

sober? good mood? HAH

well, if you stay w/ a friend for a few days, she'll come around.

Originally posted by Ladyluck
sober? good mood? HAH

Aww.. I'm sorry to hear that. 🙁 hug I really want to help in some way. 🙁 😮

sigh!! I remember those days, dont worry it will blow over, I think.

I really hope she gets over this but until then I did find a friend I could stay with for about a week

don't woory too much. are you old enough to move out?

Originally posted by Ladyluck
I really hope she gets over this but until then I did find a friend I could stay with for about a week

Don't go partying all night?

ooo you should come stay over here!

lol

haha Andrew I would

I found somewhere to stay but my mom said if I leave she never wants me coming back and I know she means it.

I'm old enough to move out but I seriously have nowhere to go.

I don't know what to do anymore cry

I guess you should stay over there and put up with your mom's bs and save up money and thn move out when you have enough

Seeing as I don't have a job, how do you propose I do that?

umm...no offense, but your mom sucks. stay w/ your friend till you find a place. at least that way you can live your life.

Woah, wait a minute.

I'm sorry, but kicking someone out of the house because they arrive back late is just, well, bizarre. Even if it is over and over.

Think about it - kicking your son/daughter out of the house and having them live somewhere else means they'll probably stay out even longer.

Sorry, but kicking kids out of the house can only make things worse, and from my own observations with friends who have had this happen to them, it usually does.

If I kicked my kid out of the house, I'd be EVEN MORE worried about their well being.

It's a lazy and ineffective patch that doesn't solve anything.

I've never understood the "get out" philosophy of parenting.