Interracial Dating/Relationships

Started by dragon milly48 pages

I didn't realize the thread was about who's a racist and who isn't. 🙄

😆 I guess it sorta is now

Originally posted by botankus
This is a very amusing statement. 😂
Well I'm glad I amuse you. 🙂

Re: Interracial Dating/Relationships

Originally posted by Tha C-Master
I see still even in this century, people still have a big problem with interracial couples being together.

How do you feel? Is it wrong for two races/creeds to mix?

Why or why not?

Anyone who has a problem with it is a complete Redneck 😐

Its a bit of a touchy subject. I don't see any problem with it, however relationships like that, and especially children from a relationship like that are often criticized and left out, fitting neither one of the racial groups, and this leads to bullying and so on. Such is the mentality of some idiots out there, and unfortunately people seem to flock to stupidity more so than they do to reason and acceptance. Its the curse of the horde. My parents for one would not like me to date a girl of a different skin color, ie African or Asian, simply because of the massive cultural difference and the belief that relationships such as this often end up in ruins because of this, but they accept that you cant control who you fall in love with. Its a loop, people believe that it will never work and look down on it, so people that try it are then consumed by the tension brought about by the prejudice and generalisations. So in short, if you love someone, go for it, just be prepared to face some of criticism aimed at relationships like this out there.

Originally posted by Kosta
Its a bit of a touchy subject. I don't see any problem with it, however relationships like that, and especially children from a relationship like that are often criticized and left out, fitting neither one of the racial groups, and this leads to bullying and so on. Such is the mentality of some idiots out there, and unfortunately people seem to flock to stupidity more so than they do to reason and acceptance. Its the curse of the horde. My parents for one would not like me to date a girl of a different skin color, ie African or Asian, simply because of the massive cultural difference and the belief that relationships such as this often end up in ruins because of this, but they accept that you cant control who you fall in love with. Its a loop, people believe that it will never work and look down on it, so people that try it are then consumed by the tension brought about by the prejudice and generalisations. So in short, if you love someone, go for it, just be prepared to face some of criticism aimed at relationships like this out there.

Yes.There was a True Life doc on this.There was this couple of a white man and a black girl,and all these guys where asking the girl what went wrong?

Originally posted by Otaku
Yes.There was a True Life doc on this.There was this couple of a white man and a black girl,and all these guys where asking the girl what went wrong?

"What went wrong?" as in "Why is she dating a white man?"?

Originally posted by Kosta
"What went wrong?" as in "Why is she dating a white man?"?

Yeah.And they where hitting on here even though her boyfriend was standing right next to her.They just didnt care.But i dont think that has anything to do with the guy being white 😬

Dont matter to me, even tho i cant discuss the issues surrounding this thread at this time, but just remember that i said " Its cool with me ".

Otaku -No, it has something to do with the guy being a wimp 😬. But that doesn't make what they were doing right. Ah well, I guess people should just pick carefully who they associate with in order to seed out the kind of people that condone or instigate this kind of behaviour.

I understand that there are a certain amount of things programmed in one's brain to make them favor certain aesthetics or whatever.

You should still show respect to everyone though...

Why do guys act like they don't care? And as soon as you split up, they sleep with as many people as possible?

Originally posted by IHATEMEN
Why do guys act like they don't care? And as soon as you split up, they sleep with as many people as possible?

What? This has nothing to do with the topic.

Your screenname suggests an illogical bias in your feelings, and leads me to believe that nothing you say should be taken seriously.

Originally posted by Tha C-Master
I understand that there are a certain amount of things programmed in one's brain to make them favor certain aesthetics or whatever.

You should still show respect to everyone though...

Exactly.

Personally, I'm not out to preach to these idiots about not being racists, etc. I honestly couldn't care less what they think, but in this situation, it's a question of tact.

Ie. I'm not too fond of Chinese food in general, (aside from chicken fried rice)...but I don't make it a point to let everyone know that...like rub it in the face of Orientals that I don't prefer their food. I keep it to myself. If the question were ever posed, 'Do you like Chinese food?', I would simply say that I preferred Italian food, Indian food, burgers/fries, etc. I wouldn't be obnoxious and list every reason why I don't like Chinese food. Sure it's my 'right' to express myself in such an arrogant manner...but unless I'm 15 years old, I don't, because I understand there's a minimum level of respect that everyone's entitled to.

I dont know if any of you heard about this but here's a story about a young black teenager who was murdered partly because of his white girlfriend. I was going to make a thread about it when it happened but this seems like a good place to discuss it.

http://observer.guardian.co.uk/uk_news/story/0,6903,1539884,00.html

Originally posted by IHATEMEN
Why do guys act like they don't care? And as soon as you split up, they sleep with as many people as possible?

I'm curious...but why do you hate men? Unless your username is just a gag.

Originally posted by Lord S
Exactly.

Personally, I'm not out to preach to these idiots about not being racists, etc. I honestly couldn't care less what they think, but in this situation, it's a question of tact.

Ie. I'm not too fond of Chinese food in general, (aside from chicken fried rice)...but I don't make it a point to let everyone know that...like rub it in the face of Orientals that I don't prefer their food. I keep it to myself. If the question were ever posed, 'Do you like Chinese food?', I would simply say that I preferred Italian food, Indian food, burgers/fries, etc. I wouldn't be obnoxious and list every reason why I don't like Chinese food. Sure it's my 'right' to express myself in such an arrogant manner...but unless I'm 15 years old, I don't, because I understand there's a minimum level of respect that everyone's entitled to.

I read this book a LOOOOOOOOONG time ago called The giver. Good book part of it was in the future, people could only see in black and white (no racism people only saw facial features, race was unknown.), families were assigned and other things (breeder women), I found it to be an interesting book.

Originally posted by Lord S
Listen twinkletoes, we've already been through this...you're a racist. Plain and simple. Not entirely sure why you don't just come out and admit it...unless you're trying to employ some 'Comical Ali' tactic...in which case, you should just cut the crap.

😆

Originally posted by WindDancer
I'm curious...but why do you hate men? Unless your username is just a gag.

Sadly, I think their 1 career post has come and gone. Point and Gag made...and adios.

I'm the result of an interracial relationship, so I know first-hand that there is absolutely nothing wrong with them. It kind of disgusts me that this thread even exists, how can anyone still question racial mixing in this day and age? 😕