Need some love advice if you please
Ok. heres the deal. My fiance and I havent been making love in quite some time. Neither one is cheating, just work, sick, school, and all that jazz. So when he wants to I dont or vise versa. But now, I feel like we are falling apart. This morning he wasnt acting himself. Almost acting like he was upset or something. Any ideas or thoughts? I feel like Im losing him but he says nothing is wrong.(i know him better than that tho)
no one on this forum knows your fiance so IF someone had even bothered to try to give you advice...it would have been crap at best. IF you are having those sorts of issues then its my suggestion to seek professional help....no? Fine...get out the big tub of ice cream, sit & watch info-mercials till you fill like slapping yourself.
see? tis the best advice and its crap 😛
Re: Need some love advice if you please
Originally posted by CURIOUS22
Ok. heres the deal. My fiance and I havent been making love in quite some time. Neither one is cheating, just work, sick, school, and all that jazz. So when he wants to I dont or vise versa. But now, I feel like we are falling apart. This morning he wasnt acting himself. Almost acting like he was upset or something. Any ideas or thoughts? I feel like Im losing him but he says nothing is wrong.(i know him better than that tho)
Simple. You* need to take a day off of work and plan a romantic evening for him. Go to VS, buy some sexy lingerie, make him dinner, just spoil him.
Originally posted by Otaku
Isnt that the same as wearing sexy lingerie?Anycrap i dont think that would really save a relationship...unless your fiance is named Al Bundy 😐
*re- reads Curious' post*
You already said the answer. You stopped having sex. Men can't stand that (most anyways).
If he's becoming distance he might being thinking about seeing someone else (or may have already). You should sit down and talk to him.
Re: Need some love advice if you please
Originally posted by CURIOUS22
Ok. heres the deal. My fiance and I havent been making love in quite some time. Neither one is cheating, just work, sick, school, and all that jazz. So when he wants to I dont or vise versa. But now, I feel like we are falling apart. This morning he wasnt acting himself. Almost acting like he was upset or something. Any ideas or thoughts? I feel like Im losing him but he says nothing is wrong.(i know him better than that tho)
Wait a minute... You're fiance sometimes doesn't want sex? What the hell is wrong with him.
Communication is the key to a healthy and active sex life, so talk with one another. Ask him what he would like, to make your relationship better. Be open to what he has to say.
Let him know you care and are thinking about him throughout the day by notes, e-mails, phone calls, hugs, etc.
Make a date for romance. Plan an evening of intimacy. Turn off the TV, light candles, put on some romantic music, treat him to a massage, ...
Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam.
Originally posted by Storm
Communication is the key to a healthy and active sex life, so talk with one another. Ask him what he would like, to make your relationship better. Be open to what he has to say.
Let him know you care and are thinking about him throughout the day by notes, e-mails, phone calls, hugs, etc.
Make a date for romance. Plan an evening of intimacy. Turn off the TV, light candles, put on some romantic music, treat him to a massage, ...Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam.
Turn off the TV? Are you crazy? All that will happen is "I WAS WATCHING THAT *****!" "I'm Sorry, I'll give you a massage" " YOU JUST GAVE ME ONE *****!"
In the end they bothd die.
Re: Need some love advice if you please
Originally posted by CURIOUS22
Ok. heres the deal. My fiance and I havent been making love in quite some time. Neither one is cheating, just work, sick, school, and all that jazz. So when he wants to I dont or vise versa. But now, I feel like we are falling apart. This morning he wasnt acting himself. Almost acting like he was upset or something. Any ideas or thoughts? I feel like Im losing him but he says nothing is wrong.(i know him better than that tho)
This might sound bad but ...............THE GUY NEEDS TO GET LAID 😐
Originally posted by CURIOUS22
Ok. heres the deal. My fiance and I havent been making love in quite some time. Neither one is cheating, just work, sick, school, and all that jazz. So when he wants to I dont or vise versa. But now, I feel like we are falling apart. This morning he wasnt acting himself. Almost acting like he was upset or something. Any ideas or thoughts? I feel like Im losing him but he says nothing is wrong.(i know him better than that tho)