What should I do?

Started by _Sanctuary_2 pages

What should I do?

I can't stand it anymore
And I hate her

I'll call her Colette ok?

Every day I hear her opinions on me
Colette thinks she knows me, it is frankly disturbing that she thinks she knows me when every day I am lieing to her because it would tear up the group if me and her didn't speak to each other.

So I say nothing, as usual...

She goes on and on insulting my looks my fashion sense.... Making me feel completely worthless

And as usual I say nothing...

She goes on and on and every day I hear this walking superiority complex telling me about herself...
I am getting fed up of this...

Colette tries to impress her friends by acting like complete moron or by hitting other people

I just can't stand it....

Every day I have to act a stupid way just so I can stay friends with these people.. what is the point..

They all secretly hate each other, so there is a big chance they hate me and if that doesn't matter then why should I stay friends with them?

I don't know what to do, I lose her as a "friend" and I have to spend all my time alone and I will get bullied about it - again..
Why did I make friends with these people?
What should I do?

Make friends with me instead! 😱

😛

lol I actually prefer being online and talking to people like this than to be talking to them...

😊

Originally posted by _Sanctuary_
lol I actually prefer being online and talking to people like this than to be talking to them...

Thats really sad. Try changing your personality, you're acting like a benson (Scottish Word) .

Originally posted by HBK
Thats really sad. Try changing your personality, you're acting like a benson (Scottish Word) .

No it's not. No one should change their personality for anybody.

Originally posted by HBK
Thats really sad. Try changing your personality, you're acting like a benson (Scottish Word) .
I like new words...explain benson for me please.

Originally posted by _Sanctuary_
I can't stand it anymore
And I hate her

I'll call her Colette ok?

Every day I hear her opinions on me
Colette thinks she knows me, it is frankly disturbing that she thinks she knows me when every day I am lieing to her because it would tear up the group if me and her didn't speak to each other.

So I say nothing, as usual...

She goes on and on insulting my looks my fashion sense.... Making me feel completely worthless

And as usual I say nothing...

She goes on and on and every day I hear this walking superiority complex telling me about herself...
I am getting fed up of this...

Colette tries to impress her friends by acting like complete moron or by hitting other people

I just can't stand it....

Every day I have to act a stupid way just so I can stay friends with these people.. what is the point..

They all secretly hate each other, so there is a big chance they hate me and if that doesn't matter then why should I stay friends with them?

I don't know what to do, I lose her as a "friend" and I have to spend all my time alone and I will get bullied about it - again..
Why did I make friends with these people?
What should I do?

My 'old' friend did that. I told her if you like the things about me tough. Leave me the hell alone if she cant be nicer. 🙂 I'll be your friend 😄

Oh tragedy....

Well that really helps my inferiority complex "Otaku"

It sounds weird the way I have written it out on the page....

Simplified:

Total b***h what do I do?

Make some real friends that aren't back stabbers. People you can actually have fun with and hang out and not worry about if they hate you and why. This Colette seems like she maybe Jealous of you. If you want to stay friends with them, you need to tell her how you feel. Be honest and say that what she is saying and doing is not very friend like and you don't appreciate it. And she needs to stop. But I think you need to weigh your choices here. Stay with your current friends and go through what seems to deeply trouble you or try and make new friends who don't upset you in such away.

My problem is that I'm a complete freak.
I never talk and I mean NEVER because people automatically make fun of me becuase I see things differently to them.
People are scared of me because they see me as "mysterious" I can't make friends with anyone else...
And HBK just because I prefer being here to with my school "friends" does not mean that I do not have other friends..
My best friend moved to New Zealand last year and my other friends go to other schools

Originally posted by HBK
Thats really sad. Try changing your personality, you're acting like a benson (Scottish Word) .

I did have other friends, but they are gone now.
1 to NZ, 3 others to other schools

Originally posted by _Sanctuary_
My problem is that I'm a complete freak.
I never talk and I mean NEVER because people automatically make fun of me becuase I see things differently to them.
People are scared of me because they see me as "mysterious" I can't make friends with anyone else...
And HBK just because I prefer being here to with my school "friends" does not mean that I do not have other friends..
My best friend moved to New Zealand last year and my other friends go to other schools
I dress differently and act different. I know what you mean i was a freak untill i started to make new friends. can be one your friends Sanctuary?

YAY!

Originally posted by _Sanctuary_
My problem is that I'm a complete freak.
I never talk and I mean NEVER because people automatically make fun of me becuase I see things differently to them.
People are scared of me because they see me as "mysterious" I can't make friends with anyone else...
And HBK just because I prefer being here to with my school "friends" does not mean that I do not have other friends..
My best friend moved to New Zealand last year and my other friends go to other schools

I used to be exactly like you. I never used to talk to anybody so I was considered the biggest loser in my year. But now I go to college, it's a hell of a lot better than school.

I suggest you

1. Watch Mean Girls
2. Read ''Queenbees and Wannabes'' by Rosalind Wiseman

And then when you have a more full understandign of the mean girl's psyche you can use it to undermine them.

hmmmm still no one....benson....I must know what this means detective

I always make friends with the wrong people!