My wife has known for about 6 months now. She is sort of mixed about it. She does not stop me from dressing and even helps me with pick out clothes and sometimes she even helps me with makeup. At the same time she still does not want to go out with me dressed, which I can understand and respect.
As far are living full-time as a woman, I can't say that I haven't thought about it, but I'm not sure if I would want to or not.
My wife is a happy medium. She does not really like it, but she accepts it because it is a huge part of me and makes me happy. She has gone out with me before, but that has been years ago now.
So, she doesn't hate it, doesn't resent it (much), but doesn't like it or encourage it either.
I guess you could say she loves me. :-)
Hey Girlfriend, I am one of the very blessed....my wife is 100% fine with my CDing and supports me fully! Although I'm not able to go out to town dressed (redneckville, somebody would get hurt) I am always underdressed and our toenails are always the same color! I may have to look and act "male" at work but at home, thank GOD I don't have to live that macho crap! Kaitlin