Originally posted by Scribble
Personally, if I was gay, I wouldn't want a big deal made out of it. We live in way more accepting times than ever before, and I'd just want to be able to get on with my life and not have a big deal made of the fact that I like men and not women.But if it was in a very conservative area, maybe throwing a Coming Out Party would be a good thing – a **** you to the ignorant cünts in the surrounding area. It all depends on the context (as does everything).
I'm just a straight white cis male though, so I dunno. But personally, I wouldn't throw my kid a coming out party because to me it makes no difference what sexuality they are I'd want them to accept that. Otherwise it might make them feel like them being gay is them being 'different', which to me they aren't. They shouldn't be specifically 'proud to be gay' – they should just be proud to be who they are, no matter what they are.
But coming back to my other thing, if this was twenty/thirty (even ten) years ago, I might throw him/her a party, and encourage him to be specifically proud to be gay, because that would help bring around social change and further homosexuality being accepted as a normal part of human life.
If I was gay, I would want to be treated equally. I would just want acceptance, not a big party. It's like when people are overloving, it's not needed. But, everyone is different, and I accept that. I just personally don't think it's needed.
Originally posted by immaturerainbowHey, not poking fun or anything, it just gave me a chuckle! My first profile from 2004 (I was 11) is way embarrassing to look at
adjsakldjlskjf- DUDE I WAS FREAKING 12 AND DIDN'T KNOW HOW TO SPELL. MY PARENTS MADE ME GET OFF THE SITE BECAUSE THEY THOUGHT THE GUY I WAS TALKING TO WAS A ONLINE PREDATOR. LMFAO.
Originally posted by Scribble
Hey, not poking fun or anything, it just gave me a chuckle! My first profile from 2004 (I was 11) is way embarrassing to look at