Originally posted by Jmanghan
Yeah, the girl likes you, but in a way, you already said Yes to aamie, pretty sure she'd be crushed, and it'd be kinda douchey to just say "Hey, I'm breaking up with you for this other girl". Now, the real question is, Did Paris know you were both just FWB's to begin with? There have been plenty of times in my past when I had an FWB and afterward we did things, she'd tell me she loves me or something.Tell Paris that you guys were just friends, you're in a relationship now. It's going to be hard to do, though, from the looks of it.
Also, it was also kinda rude of her to assume you used those girls, my suggestion is, say something like "You were never just some sex toy to me, I care about you as my friend."
Lastly, don't leave her with ABSOLUTELY no hope and don't say anything too mean, cause you like her as more then a friend right? Give her some hints but don't outright say "If me and aamie break up, I'll date you."
Something a little nicer like "Maybe someday if something should happen, and fate brings us together in the future. But right now, I'm with someone that I like a lot, I'm sorry. I hope we can still be friends. 🙂"
she suggested friends with benefits
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t was surprising to have her assume the "using" bit but i am. not angry at that or anything.
she knows i would have instantly dated her had aamie not offered. but because i said yes i am going to stick to it and see if it works out for both of us because thats who i am.
thanks thou for replying, means alot
Originally posted by Morning_Glory
I can see why Paris thinks you might of been just using her-- some reason the relationship with Paris would end up being complicated idk
i honestly dont think so, she is a small thing who is bi like me, has Alot of self inflicted scars on her arms like me. she is my age and we can tell eachother anything. i have told her about my bullying trauma when i was 8 and why i dont trust anyone (even my parents to touch my neck) i trust her absolutely and it pains me to see her hurt like this.
to say she is scared of me using her hurts, she should never in anyway be scared of me