Originally posted by Slay Is there nobody else that could help you?
Do you have any savings?
No savings.
I think I'll have to get a bank loan. My dad and sister will offer to help but they can't really afford to so I won't take money from them.
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Bardock42Junior Member
Maybe you should talk to your brother alone?
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Piggle HumsyWiggle4life
My brother could help but he's obviously chose not to, so no point asking him.
I haven't even heard from him since I left work. No text to see how I'm doing etc So I guess I'm dead to him now
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Piggle HumsyWiggle4life
I think I'm just a burden to him now and he doesn't want to know
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Piggle HumsyWiggle4life
My depression and anxiety are really inconvenient for him apparently
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Bardock42Junior Member
It may also be that your depression and anxiety taints your view though. Maybe he didn't think about it, you should probably at least speak to him. You said earlier that he does really like you. Maybe your sister-in-law has been doing this behind his back?
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Piggle HumsyWiggle4life
I'll speak to my dad later. He'll speak to him. I can't really talk to him because if he's not supportive it will make me worse right now.
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Piggle HumsyWiggle4life
I know what he's like, we are very similar and I'm sure his thought was '**** her, she's brought this on herself'
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JmanghanSenior Member
Originally posted by walshy w00 thats awesome aw00t what is happening
Well, it sucks again, but the gist of it was, me and my gf were gonna move in together. Now we're not.
But thats not that funny though, cause shes dead.
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SlaySkyhighatrist
Do you really think you're brother would not be understanding of your depression?
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JmanghanSenior Member
Originally posted by Piggle Humsy My depression and anxiety are really inconvenient for him apparently
Punch him in th dick for being a dick, no one should feel inconvenienced by the person they are going to marry just because theyre depressed.
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SlaySkyhighatrist
Originally posted by Jmanghan Punch him in th dick for being a dick, no one should feel inconvenienced by the person they are going to marry just because theyre depressed.
I think you should read back a little bit.
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JmanghanSenior Member
I think I was on the wrong side of that, got it.
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JmanghanSenior Member
Originally posted by Slay Do you really think you're brother would not be understanding of your depression?
Yup. I did.
And now I realize my mistake.
...Still pretty ****ed up though.
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JmanghanSenior Member
I did it again. ****.
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Piggle HumsyWiggle4life
haermm
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Bardock42Junior Member
Maybe Jmanghan is on to something...maybe you should marry your brother hmm
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JmanghanSenior Member
See?
Happiness and imagination.
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Piggle HumsyWiggle4life
He just doesn't seem to get how much I'm struggling. I think him and his **** of a wife think I'm just lazy and don't wanna work.
I feel trapped every day by my issues. It's killing me.
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JmanghanSenior Member
Originally posted by Bardock42 Maybe Jmanghan is on to something...maybe you should marry your brother hmm