Originally posted by Scribble
It's not as easy as that when you live with someone. And he's really pushy and forceful and thinks he's right all the time. Worse: he thinks he's true neutral, so anything I say is opinionated and thus can instantly be dismissed as wrong.I try to make it clear that I find his 'friendly' bullying of her incensing, and it's getting to a point where I might just need to call him out big-style. I should have done it already tbh but he pretends (or actually believes?) that he's nice and that, and I guess tbh sometimes he is
But still... can't help but feel I'm a total craven. "The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing" and all that
I hate the people that think they are true neutral....
Originally posted by Scribble
He seemed really nice when I met him. By the time I realised what I'd got myself into, it was too late, too late...
I know that! That's like my first housemate who was a psycho..
The moment she cut up another girls credit card in front of me just because she was friends with her on/off non committal bloke, I was thinking to myself "oh so you're actually crazy as shit.. ok then'
Originally posted by Jmanghan
Dude, sometimes people just need to be put in line.Last year I got into a fight with my best friend at our other friend's apartment, not gonna go into detail, but he wss out of line, and I hsd to get involved, and it ended with my hand around his throat and him against the wall.
I apologized of course, but the point is, no matter how much guilt you feel, or how much you care about that person, it doesn't mean they can do whatever they want.
Originally posted by JmanghanYeah, I know, but this situation is weird and difficult to deal with. It's hard to explain; I think it's because he's slowly got worse and worse. Like being close friends with someone gives him the right to be a bastard, even though he's 'joking'. And it's hard to get an opportunity to tell him something because he's always talking
Dude, sometimes people just need to be put in line.Last year I got into a fight with my best friend at our other friend's apartment, not gonna go into detail, but he wss out of line, and I hsd to get involved, and it ended with my hand around his throat and him against the wall.
I apologized of course, but the point is, no matter how much guilt you feel, or how much you care about that person, it doesn't mean they can do whatever they want.
Literally the polar opposite person to me