Originally posted by walshy
what was your first time
my 19th birthday with my then boyfriend
we were just making out and the usual stuff but then he kind of brought up sex and I was like ...fine. I knew I wanted to do it soon but I could have also waited longer, but whatever. We didn't have any condoms so we went to grab some at a local store, then by the time we did the deed, I wasn't turned on anymore so it def hurt and was awkward. In that moment, I realized I wasn't really into him anymore.
I think I broke up with him a week or two later. It was weird. But by that point, I was back in college and super busy with my classes and plays I was in. He wasn't in college and didn't have a job either, he was very ambition-less and refused to get a job to become a "part of the system". Which is interesting because his family was NOT wealthy, it's not like he could just mooch off them.
So basically, my first time wasn't great, but it could have been worse. I didn't have sex for like another 3 years, and it was much better from then on.
When I was dating him, he was a hardcore vegan. He didn't eat honey or any animal products. He wanted to become a fruitarian (where you only eat fruits and nuts and stuff, because if you eat something like a carrot, which is a root, you are basically killing that plant instead of eating something like an apple off of a tree, because the tree can grow more apples). He had long, greasy hair, and was very lean, he kind of looked like Saul from Pineapple Express.
Nowadays, he has short hair, is balding, eats meat and says humans need to eat meat. He's a body builder/fitness instructor and takes selfies of himself flexing. He's the complete opposite and I am absolutely not attracted to him whatsoever. It's funny coz when we dated, I think I still ate meat. Now I am a vegetarian and have been for 6 years!