Originally posted by Selphieehhhh I dunno, I'm really needy with people when I get close to them and I get the feeling I'm kind of toxic. Like today our housemate who goes away on the weekends snapchatted one of the other people who lives here but forgot to send it to me, it was really menial and unimportant, and like without meaning to I basically guilt-tripped them about it, and I feel like shit now because even as I did I knew I was being shitty. Then I try and explain myself and it makes me feel like I'm being manipulative
why would that make you a shitty friend??
Like people should live their lives however they ****ing want without worrying about upsetting me, especially with as small stuff as this
I dunno what to do with myself, I should be better than this
Originally posted by Scribble
ehhhh I dunno, I'm really needy with people when I get close to them and I get the feeling I'm kind of toxic. Like today our housemate who goes away on the weekends snapchatted one of the other people who lives here but forgot to send it to me, it was really menial and unimportant, and like without meaning to I basically guilt-tripped them about it, and I feel like shit now because even as I did I knew I was being shitty. Then I try and explain myself and it makes me feel like I'm being manipulativeLike people should live their lives however they ****ing want without worrying about upsetting me, especially with as small stuff as this
I dunno what to do with myself, I should be better than this
Its natural to feel a little left out b/c of snapchat, it easily makes people feel unimportant because it's like you were forgotten/not deserving of this little moment someone is sending to other people
You're not alone in that. But it is important to remember some people really do not intentionally mean to do those things. I usually just add things to my story and I don't send out many snaps unless it's a super specific thing to someone.
Just remember that you are a good person and indeed cared about by your friends and are wanted biscuits
Originally posted by SelphieYeah I know, it's really silly, it's just because I don't actually use snapchat that much so I'm not at the top of the list or anything so it's easy to forget to send it to me. I guess that in itself bothers me, but shouldn't, it's my own damn fault
Its natural to feel a little left out b/c of snapchat, it easily makes people feel unimportant because it's like you were forgotten/not deserving of this little moment someone is sending to other peopleYou're not alone in that. But it is important to remember some people really do not intentionally mean to do those things. I usually just add things to my story and I don't send out many snaps unless it's a super specific thing to someone.
Just remember that you are a good person and indeed cared about by your friends and are wanted biscuits
I do try to remember that, most of the time I'm really good with it, it's just stupid little things that send me back to the start ha-son
Originally posted by SelphieYiss, will do
u guys should add me @ liztonicedtea biscuits
Like I say I don't use it much though O:
Originally posted by walshyStuck in '07, thank you very much uhuh
Omg scrubs you have Snapchat yet you're like stuck in 05 with your tech knowledge wtf