Originally posted by BlackSunshine
The problems probably aren't because of you...they're probably because of him and he doesnt want to admit it. You don't need to be with someone that is gonna blame every problem on you. There's no such thing as a perfect relationship and its not really fair for him to blame all of it on you.That's how Impediment, my bf, is now because of past relatiopnships...he is very monagomous but he doent believe in marraige and I have to be respectful of his feelings and not push the subject. I would love to get married but if I cant, I cant. 🙂
Since him I promised to never get my heart broken again. So I haven't been in a serious relationship since
Originally posted by x_hp_fan
He was the best thing that every happened to me ....other than my family
I used to think that about the guy I was with before I met Impediment. I thought he was the best thing that had ever happened to me and no one would ever replace him. I was with him for 5 years and he treated me like sh*t, beat up on me and blamed EVERYTHING on me even if he did it himself. I hated myself for being with him. I'm just glad I found someone else who loves me and accepts me for who I am and gave me the sweetest child in the whole world.
Originally posted by Morning_Glory
o my!.... trust me! I know it's hard to see it now--there will be more guys out there for you...and when you meet someone else you will be like "pfft" to Mr X ...
Originally posted by x_hp_fan
Since him I promised to never get my heart broken again. So I haven't been in a serious relationship since
Originally posted by Morning_Glory
well we figured you were going to wait yrs before getting married but you should even be mentioning the word "marriage" at 14 or 15... 😖
At first I doubted it he was serious about it but before I knew it he was telling me everything that he planned on happending. I mean, he told me what his job was gonna be, and things like that.
Originally posted by BlackSunshineawww sorry that happened to you 🙁
I used to think that about the guy I was with before I met Impediment. I thought he was the best thing that had ever happened to me and no one would ever replace him. I was with him for 5 years and he treated me like sh*t, beat up on me and blamed EVERYTHING on me even if he did it himself. I hated myself for being with him. I'm just glad I found someone else who loves me and accepts me for who I am and gave me the sweetest child in the whole world.
Originally posted by BlackSunshinecry you okay now?
I used to think that about the guy I was with before I met Impediment. I thought he was the best thing that had ever happened to me and no one would ever replace him. I was with him for 5 years and he treated me like sh*t, beat up on me and blamed EVERYTHING on me even if he did it himself. I hated myself for being with him. I'm just glad I found someone else who loves me and accepts me for who I am and gave me the sweetest child in the whole world.
Originally posted by BlackSunshine
I used to think that about the guy I was with before I met Impediment. I thought he was the best thing that had ever happened to me and no one would ever replace him. I was with him for 5 years and he treated me like sh*t, beat up on me and blamed EVERYTHING on me even if he did it himself. I hated myself for being with him. I'm just glad I found someone else who loves me and accepts me for who I am and gave me the sweetest child in the whole world.
🙁 I was with a guy that used to hit me, but I used to hit him back, I mean, he would get mad because I gave money to some other guy and he would act like he would be playing with me and he would start punching me, a little harder than the playful punches, and I would tell him to stop and he wouldn't he'd keep "playing" with me and then I didn't realize that he was hitting me because he was mad at me till I got home and I remembered that he had gotten mad at me for giving that other boy money
Originally posted by x_hp_fansorry darling dear... it all sounds a little naive, but we lover you to pieces ... things don't always turn out in your adult life like you plan or hope (even if you have it ALL planned out) ... not just saying that from my experience but from my friends & others I've known...
At first I doubted it he was serious about it but before I knew it he was telling me everything that he planned on happending. I mean, he told me what his job was gonna be, and things like that.