Sexual Deviance - When does kinky become sick?

Many people are sexually deviant 😮 When though do games become problems in peoples lives?

I'm glad you asked this from your regular Whirlysplatt ID and not the Princess Diana one. 😛

Originally posted by Mr _Whirlysplat
Many people are sexually deviant 😮 When though do games become problems in peoples lives?

Once unwanted harm is caused to some party. Before that people should do as they wish.

Originally posted by Mr _Whirlysplat
Many people are sexually deviant 😮 When though do games become problems in peoples lives?

Originally posted by botankus
I'm glad you asked this from your regular Whirlysplatt ID and not the Princess Diana one. 😛

Love that!!!!!!!!!!

I guess to answer the question, both should be into it. 😱

Originally posted by Victor Von Doom
Once unwanted harm is caused to some party. Before that people should do as they wish.

What about wanted harm e.g. "The Spanner Case"

http://www.sexuality.org/l/bdsm/laskey.html

Originally posted by botankus
I'm glad you asked this from your regular Whirlysplatt ID and not the Princess Diana one. 😛

😂

I am thinking of being Jessica Alba next 🙂 I see myself using lots of shower gel🙂

What do you mean "What about wanted harm"? It's wanted, not unwanted.

-AC

Nah, work has been a fun place on occasion. Bathroom stalls can be a very interesting place to have a rendezvous. 😮 😄

Originally posted by BobbyD
Nah, work has been a fun place on occasion. Bathroom stalls can be a very interesting place to have a rendezvous. 😮 😄

The woods too.......

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
What do you mean "What about wanted harm"? It's wanted, not unwanted.

-AC

A comment was made about unwanted harm being where the line is drawn. Wanted harm also causes problems not the least Doctors time etc. I'm sure you can see all the othe problems without me spelling it out AC.

Originally posted by BobbyD
Nah, work has been a fun place on occasion. Bathroom stalls can be a very interesting place to have a rendezvous. 😮 😄

Yes I'm sure there is nothing more exhilarating than breathing in microscopic airborne fecal matter at the point of orgasm.

Depends what you mean when you say "When does kinky become sick?".

To some person, crapping on another person isn't sick. It's kinky. To me, whilst I can understand the psychological attraction to it (degradation etc), I find it disturbing that you could gain anything sexual from it. I wouldn't call it sick because I find that a bit derogatory. To each their own if no harm is done.

On the other hand. Wanting to be blindfolded and spanked is "sick" to some people.

Kinky can't become "sick" if you're involved and enjoy it, really. Because it becoming "sick" suggests that you don't like it.

-AC

Deb, you naughty girl. 😉

Originally posted by BobbyD
Deb, you naughty girl. 😉

Leaves can be a problem though.....It's not the Garden of Eden.

Kharma, I understand "the john" might not be the most appropriate place, but when at work and you and partner "want to go", your choices are very limited.

didnt a bunch of guys who loved to nail their own scrote bags to tables all get arrested for their sexual deviance?...i'm sure i remember that from some bizzare news story...goes to show that even consentual deviances can be legally dodgy

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Depends what you mean when you say "When does kinky become sick?".

To some person, crapping on another person isn't sick. It's kinky. To me, whilst I can understand the psychological attraction to it (degradation etc), I find it disturbing that you could gain anything sexual from it. I wouldn't call it sick because I find that a bit derogatory. To each their own if no harm is done.

On the other hand. Wanting to be blindfolded and spanked is "sick" to some people.

Kinky can't become "sick" if you're involved and enjoy it, really. Because it becoming "sick" suggests that you don't like it.

-AC

Ah but the sub note is when does it become a problem in peoples lives, I've left this general to promote debate.

Originally posted by jaden101
didnt a bunch of guys who loved to nail their own scrote bags to tables all get arrested for their sexual deviance?...i'm sure i remember that from some bizzare news story...goes to show that even consentual deviances can be legally dodgy

Yes that was the "Spanner Case" Jade I posted a link earlier mate.

I can't answer that. People's lives don't concern me, especially their sexual antics.

It becomes a problem when one of the involved humans comes to unwanted harm, as earlier stated.

-AC

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Depends what you mean when you say "When does kinky become sick?".

To some person, crapping on another person isn't sick. It's kinky. To me, whilst I can understand the psychological attraction to it (degradation etc), I find it disturbing that you could gain anything sexual from it. I wouldn't call it sick because I find that a bit derogatory. To each their own if no harm is done.

On the other hand. Wanting to be blindfolded and spanked is "sick" to some people.

Kinky can't become "sick" if you're involved and enjoy it, really. Because it becoming "sick" suggests that you don't like it.

-AC

oh and its sick if its a dirty sanchez by request! All these perceptions and so much understanding of english........so sick is only sick if it stops being kinky.....hmm interesting