Would You Continue?

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DanieLs_4_Ever Warum ist die Sonne rund?

Originally posted by silver_tears
Say you were seeing someone, and it was pretty serious, you thought you were "in love" if you will. This person seemed to you to be the right one for you, and you believed the relationship was moving towards happily ever after.

Then one day you found out this person was in fact with someone else, for longer than they were with you, be it they were married or just together. Their significant other had no idea you exist, and the cheating partner has no idea you know, would you continue the relationship knowing full well you won't get caught and hoping they'd leave the other for you, or would you end it because you felt guilty.

Honesty is key here 😛


Id stop. Commiting Adultery is a sin and is dumb as hell anyway. What I believe, is that it really depends on how long the two of you have been dating that guy, say if you were with him longer than the other, or vice versa...but Id still end it.

mechmoggy Northern Monkey

Mmmmm, wicked way with Ush. naughty

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Julie The Student

If someone cheated on someone else...they sure as heck could cheat on you too

Fire Senior Member

I think it's easy now to say you'd stop the relationship, but when you are really in love with a person, I think it would be a whole other deal.

Ushgarak Paladin

I think what people also miss is the power of ego.

When you are IN that situation, your thoughts tend to be in the area of:

"Yeah, but she cheated on him in FAVOUR of me... hence I am better... hence she will not cheat on me because I am clearly what she wants."

And so on. You don't tend to think it will happen to you.

Alpha Centauri Restricted

I also think it (the above) can only apply if you haven't been cheated on. If you have, then there I don't think any person would continue after having it done to them.

If you're not aware of what it's like to be cheated on, it probably won't seem as bad to continue.

Of course this is just my personal view.

-AC

River Wild Senior Member

I'd stop right away, because i believe in Karma! It's not right to cheat to someone you love!