Originally posted by bordom
Okay so I have a bf, and this other guy really likes me so he askes for my address. I give it to him but ask him why he wanted it. He tells me cause he wants to mail me a letter. WELL, now I found out from my best friend that he's sending me something but I just don't know what. I mean this guy KNOWS that I have a bf and that I am head over heels for my bf but he STILL tells me he loves me and misses me. I don't even think that I'm hot or pretty and yet he wants to spend money on someone that has a bf!! And PLUS, he's asking my friend what kinda STONES I like in my earrings, like Diamond, or Ruby, or Saphire, I mean HOLY HELL! This guy is only 16!!! AHHHH So yeah I was just explaining that not only the hot and gorgeous women get gifts outta no where, and if anyone has any advice I would be very grateful 😬
i personally don't think i could accept an extravagent gift like that from a guy, even if he was a friend... especially if i was with someone. i'd feel wrong about it... that i could in some way be leading him on or that i'm taking advantage of him.
simple things make great friend gifts from guy to girl or vice versa... jewelry is something else entirely.