Confused...

Yes..i should..thanks for your advice hug

theyre are alot of people who still ramian friends after the break up. but if you had a chance at something and you dont go for it. then you end up spending the rest of your life wondering what happened. You could try it out for a month, and if it dont work out you can remain friends. just dont do anything stupid in the first month and it should be fine.

But what if she really doesnt have feelings for me? then i would look foolish..

thats the chance you gotta take...................thats how love is

Guess so..

if a girl ask you that question then its most likely that they are interested. She talked to you sent you SMS alot, then suddenly ask that question. She want to know if you return her feelings.

Now i have to wait as shes out...ah well we all have to wait for love i guess..

pretty much

One more peice of advise. if you do have a relation ship with her and its gone well over a month, and you no longer want to be with her, you must have a very good legitament reason why you dont want to be with her. Otherwise it's hard to remain friends.
Unless your like my friends who broke up with each other after 2 years and some how seem to be still really close friends. (this is VERY rare!)

If you truely are inlove with her, then your friendship is pretty much ruined anyway. I mean things might get a little wierd, and tensiony.

But take the chance, if you dont, your going to be asking what if.

true......so true

Originally posted by Lord. Zidane
Yeah but our scenario is she was seeing a guy, he stopped returning her calls and she was sad...and then she suddenly started talking to me more than usual....

Kiss her! If she slaps you, then you know she loves you as a friend if she kisses you back in, then you know its more.

Originally posted by stackaberry
Kiss her! If she slaps you, then you know she loves you as a friend if she kisses you back in, then you know its more.

lol That's what I said also. Its not coming on strong when she asks you if you love her or not.

Sometimes a guy just has to put himself out there, and take a chance.

Originally posted by Lord. Zidane
Their is this friend i have called Jennifer and we talk all the time, she rings me regularly and txts me heaps and we are always flirting, and the other day she asked me "do you love me" now i have some feelings for her but just said i love you as a friend, she then replied yeah i feel the same your not my type so does this mean she only likes me as a friend or is it something more? im lost..lol 🙄