Threesome Relationships....

Can they work? If not, why not? If so, why? Which variations of threesomes are morely likely to work than others? (ex. Male/Male/Female ; Male/Male/Male ; Female/Female/Male ; Female/Female/Female)

Is it morally or ethical wrong? If so, why? If not, why not?

Discuss. And for god's sake discuss this rationally and without political allegiances. 🙄

no it can't, jealousy is inevitable 😛

tell that to Hugh Heffner🙂

Hahaha, that's true.

Though to be honest I wouldn't say his relationship/s work. He doesn't truly love those girls in my opinion. I can't say for sure, I don't know the man.

-AC

Isn't there one he's closer to than the rest?

yes indeed, he only sleeps with her one on one the other girls are just toys that get to play with Hugh and his main squeeze🙂 He must pop Viagra like Vitamin C🙂

Hugh ****ing Heffner...my thread just died in three posts. That's gotta be a record.

Yes i do think it can work. You just gotta try make sure no one gets jealous. I had one for a while but distance got int he way.

Originally posted by Draco69
Hugh ****ing Heffner...my thread just died in three posts. That's gotta be a record.

Originally posted by botankus
Draco, does your sig have anything to do with this thread subject title?

No! Yes, I just realized the irony of my sig..but no.

There are some instances where they do work. My boyfriend and I both get invitations to be the third person in an "open relationship". Your average "open relationship" refers to two people, in a relationship, who are allowed to fool around outside the relationship. However, there are some couples who like to "play" together. Meaning that they only have third party relations while in each others presence.

It works for some, not for others. I have been the third party in an "open relationship", but it wouldn't work for me. When I participated, I was single.

I couldn't deal with it situation, while inside a relationship.

But, to answer the question, yes...it can work for some people. I've seen it.

Making any relationship work requires a dedication of time and effort, openness and communication, and there are never any guarantees. Every relationship will have some stumbling blocks, but I believe threesome relationships will have a few extra challenges.
But perhaps with an open mind and some rules that feel comfortable, those involved can develop a long-term situation that works for everyone.

i think its simple human nature to pair off, leaving the odd man/woman out.
in the long run i think any three way relationship is doomed.

I think jealousy spells the doom, especially when it gets more involved...

It cant work, two of the three will become really close and the other person will just become a third wheel.

If you think there's problems with 2 people....WOW, just imagine the complex problems with 3, if in a serious relationship, or threesome thingie....I'm sure many people would do this just for fun, but not for a long haul...can't imagine it working.

It would never work. I'm sure it would be great at first, but someone is bound to get jealous. Eventually someone would end up just being the third wheel because they won't get as much affection as the other person and it'll get all complicated. It just wouldn't work.

just keep that extra person as an emergency sex partner yeah know like break glass in emergency then just take them out to eat every once in awhile BAM no problem🙂

Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
There are some instances where they do work. My boyfriend and I both get invitations to be the third person in an "open relationship". Your average "open relationship" refers to two people, in a relationship, who are allowed to fool around outside the relationship. However, there are some couples who like to "play" together. Meaning that they only have third party relations while in each others presence.

It works for some, not for others. I have been the third party in an "open relationship", but it wouldn't work for me. When I participated, I was single.

I couldn't deal with it situation, while inside a relationship.

But, to answer the question, yes...it can work for some people. I've seen it.

Did you guys form a train?

😆 😆

Fin

Originally posted by Draco69
Can they work? If not, why not? If so, why? Which variations of threesomes are morely likely to work than others? (ex. Male/Male/Female ; Male/Male/Male ; Female/Female/Male ; Female/Female/Female)

Is it morally or ethical wrong? If so, why? If not, why not?

Discuss. And for god's sake discuss this rationally and without political allegiances. 🙄