I think anger is a good thing..if it can be used "effectively." There is such a thing as "righteous anger"
Personally I don't get all that angry in real life. Or in this forum for that matter. I'm opinionated in real life as I am on this forum. I do find it rather hilarious that some of the people in here tend to get angry at text and smilies.
An angry man is hungry man. An angry woman is a woman.
Perhaps, I've been dating the wrong girls...Maybe I make them angry. Maybe all girls are angry. Maybe all men are angry, so this makes the girls we know angry. Maybe all the world's a stage, and the men and women merely angry players. Maybe, "baby..." ain't gonna get me down and dirty tonight. Maybe I have to go to my girl's place and ask permission from her father for her to go on holiday with me. Maybe this makes me angry because I feel like I'm being forced into a cricle of commitment. Maybe we've been together for over a year now, so that's OK. Maybe everyone's angry at me for floating off-topic. Maybe if I bring it back, then the anger will subside. Maybe the damage is already done, so there's no hope of redemption here. Maybe I should try...
It's OK to be angry occasionally, but don't let it suffocate your happiness. There are things that should - and do - make people angry, but these should always be qualified with the good things in life. The balance is precarious, but I feel it is still in favour of the bearable lightness of being.
If you do find that the pot is boiling more than the glass is full, then remember those Three Little Birds...