Worse Christmas Ever

Started by Ms Flower3 pages

this was my worst Christmas ever. I dont give a shit about the gifts...its about being with the ones you love and wishing them well...not only was I NOT with my 'loved one' ....we broke it off between us a few days before Christmas. I felt so empty....still do...

hope the kid isn't taking it to hard. Is this a divorce or a break up, husband, boyfriend, longterm shortterm?

a break up w/ a boyfriend/best friend. I dont know how he is takin it but I know it isnt easy on him either.

Originally posted by Ms Flower
a break up w/ a boyfriend/best friend. I dont know how he is takin it but I know it isnt easy on him either.

Then why break up?

Originally posted by Darth Macabre
Then why break up?
complicated situation. not one I care to share.

It could help make it easier. Not input on the other side either. We'll just listen...

Christmas is about giving, not receiving

Originally posted by AOR
It could help make it easier. Not input on the other side either. We'll just listen...
not much to tell...he is an amazing man. unfortunately he is under so much stress and pressure at home...we live in different countries...he wants better for me...says I deserve it.

if he were here in front of me, Id have to kick his ass for choosing what he feels is better for me...I know what is what and why things are! Im a grown ass 31 year old woman who knows what the hell Im doing...no one needs to tell me what is better for me...how I would be better off...furious

Originally posted by Ms Flower
not much to tell...he is an amazing man. unfortunately he is under so much stress and pressure at home...we live in different countries...he wants better for me...says I deserve it.

if he were here in front of me, Id have to kick his ass for choosing what he feels is better for me...I know what is what and why things are! Im a grown ass 31 year old woman who knows what the hell Im doing...no one needs to tell me what is better for me...how I would be better off...furious

He just cares about you a lot. It's common for men to let their views go against there judgement when it comes to the woman they love.

*sighs* I know...stupid men...men can be such wieners sometimes.

Originally posted by Ms Flower
*sighs* I know...stupid men...men can be such wieners sometimes.

LoL yes, yes we can. I happen to be lucky enough to be in love with a girl who knows how incredibly inlove I am with her. So if I ever say something against what she wishes, she knows its only because I love her.

Originally posted by Darth Macabre
LoL yes, yes we can. I happen to be lucky enough to be in love with a girl who knows how incredibly inlove I am with her. So if I ever say something against what she wishes, she knows its only because I love her.
I wish you and her the best. Im going to bed now...thanks for letting me rant a little...take care.

of course. this was the kind of thing that any thread starter should have no problem with if it has nothing to do with their thread.

i was wondering if this boyfriend is the father...

I had a good christmas compared to other years, the only I was looking forward to was breakfast, lunch and dinner at different relatives houses. I completely forgot about gifts and everything, I had too much fun being with everyone.

that's good