Exactly! People will be speaking from the standpoint that it's worse to give up a baby, to murder potential life. But, for me, losing the baby to save the mother's life would have been a preferable choice. The father would still have the person he loves, the mother a chance at life and the opportunity to create more life in the future. Do you think it's going to be easy for the father to look at the child and see only the baby? There's going to a lot more heartache for that man, and for the child as it grows, knowing its mother sacrificed herself.