Love sucks

well for me it does anyway. i want any opions on this plz.

my boyfriend and i have been dating for 13 weeks. and it's been great. i really love him and he announced 2 weeks ago he was going to have to go to america for 2 months, i was devistated. but it only got worse from there. about a week after he flew out he announced he may have to stay in america..... for good. i dont know what to do or say. i am practically in bits. he is coming bak for two days on tuesday. and im sleeping round his that night. his parents won't be there that night. it will just be me and him. this maybe the last time i see him. and i don't know what to do.

i love him and he loves me. this is tearing me apart. and my best friend moved away as well not long ago. everytime i get close to someone they leave.

Originally posted by melinda_warren
well for me it does anyway. i want any opions on this plz.

my boyfriend and i have been dating for 13 weeks. and it's been great. i really love him and he announced 2 weeks ago he was going to have to go to america for 2 months, i was devistated. but it only got worse from there. about a week after he flew out he announced he may have to stay in america..... for good. i dont know what to do or say. i am practically in bits. he is coming bak for two days on tuesday. and im sleeping round his that night. his parents won't be there that night. it will just be me and him. this maybe the last time i see him. and i don't know what to do.

i love him and he loves me. this is tearing me apart. and my best friend moved away as well not long ago. everytime i get close to someone they leave.

wow.. that sucks.. truly... I feel for you...

my girl kinda did the same thing to me 🙁...

hope you're doin alright.

thanks. i just don't know if i want tuesday to come or if i don't. 🙁

irrr. yeah... tough call....

what's more "worth it" to you? that's the most important question..

Originally posted by melinda_warren
well for me it does anyway. i want any opions on this plz.

my boyfriend and i have been dating for 13 weeks. and it's been great. i really love him and he announced 2 weeks ago he was going to have to go to america for 2 months, i was devistated. but it only got worse from there. about a week after he flew out he announced he may have to stay in america..... for good. i dont know what to do or say. i am practically in bits. he is coming bak for two days on tuesday. and im sleeping round his that night. his parents won't be there that night. it will just be me and him. this maybe the last time i see him. and i don't know what to do.

i love him and he loves me. this is tearing me apart. and my best friend moved away as well not long ago. everytime i get close to someone they leave.

Long story short, lots of lessons learned, and it had a big affect on everyone.

Originally posted by jinzin
irrr. yeah... tough call....

what's more "worth it" to you? that's the most important question..

✅ 🙁 I know the feeling.

Originally posted by Tha C-Master
I'm sorry to hear that, I JUST got out of a VERY traumatic relationship where it was the best thing in the world...
Then things changed, and got MORE and MORE traumatizing, but it was psychological...

Long story short, lots of lessons learned, and it had a big affect on everyone.

was it the girl you pmed me about?

he keeps phoning me trying to tell me its ok but, well its just simply not helping. i feel like i should never get close to anyone ever again. like if i do they'll leave.

Originally posted by dark_angelz
✅ 🙁 I know the feeling.

you trying to make a tough desicion too?

Yea...

Originally posted by melinda_warren
he keeps phoning me trying to tell me its ok but, well its just simply not helping. i feel like i should never get close to anyone ever again. like if i do they'll leave.

don't think like that... that's irrational...

this whole love shtick's a hit and miss sorta game...

don't give up though...

Originally posted by Tha C-Master
Yea...

wow.. so.... trainwreck huh?

sorry man...

I'm guessing it was moreso her than you...

Originally posted by jinzin
wow.. so.... trainwreck huh?

sorry man...

I'm guessing it was moreso her than you...

Originally posted by Tha C-Master
Like I said... totally psychological...

yeah.. I would have guessed as much...

wot should i do? i love him. and our last night together will be alone. to do whatever we like

13 weeks? That's...what...three months?

Come back when you've dated him a year before you can say 'Love sucks.' For now, stick to 'My boyfriend going to America for a whole two months sucks.'

Here's the hoping he doesn't meet one of our babes. Where in the States is he headed?

I'm not a person to do things I'd regret or that would lead to long term consequences... but thats just me... 🙂

Originally posted by melinda_warren
he keeps phoning me trying to tell me its ok but, well its just simply not helping. i feel like i should never get close to anyone ever again. like if i do they'll leave.

Originally posted by melinda_warren
wot should i do? i love him. and our last night together will be alone. to do whatever we like

i have? and hes stinking rich he doesn't care about calling me costing him. he's travelling all over the states last time i asked he said he was in new york buying me my christmas present. which i now have 🙂