Being single gives you the advantage of having peace, but when it comes to "need" you're fried. I am, and I live with my sis/nephew/mom and I share my room. How can I have a girl with my mom right next to me huh, you tell me? We have our destiny (rich/middle/poor) and we fight it but can't control it. I am an american citizen-not native though. My dream is to visit Japan but you know how expensive that is from US about six thousand dollars not including whatever you'd like to buy there. So, what can I do? Gain superpowers and go to Hollywood to get paid for it? Yeah, maybe.