When you take a girl out....where do you take her?

Started by K.Diddy3 pages

When you take a girl out....where do you take her?

What do you do? I know this sounds stupid but my Ex loves raves and so do I so it made it easy, but this girl I am ''kinda'' seeing at the moment is not into that stuff.

Also going to the movies with a girl or going and sitting by a lake is a bit gay for my liking 😕

I'm not really a romantic person like that, My idea of a date is to go to a rave with some speed and jump up and down all night or go to the beach and kick back on the sand and smoke a joint 😮‍💨

well then just take her to a decent concert i.e. U2 is in australia soon, im going

It depends on what the girl likes.

There's a place called Carnivale where I'm from. It has all these carnival games, and the likes. I take my dates there every so often. It's light hearted enough to be fun, but yet winning a prize that you spent 500 bucks to get is also quite romantic. lol Or we go to a hookah lounge.

If she's a "girly girl" then I just take her out to dinner.

It actually depends if you wan't to use her or not.

If you prefer her for a long-term relationship, start off slowly. Make sure your first date is something that will entertain you both. Like a comedy place, or a funny movie, for example.

Originally posted by bogen
well then just take her to a decent concert i.e. U2 is in australia soon, im going

Does that mean I have to pay for her ticket?

😕 I dont care but will she expect that ?

A movie
concert
party
beach
dinner
games
laser shows

Originally posted by Sgt. Hairy
It actually depends if you wan't to use her or not.

If you prefer her for a long-term relationship, start off slowly. Make sure your first date is something that will entertain you both. Like a comedy place, or a funny movie, for example.

No, I like her...........I just dont know what to ****ing do with her 😂

I just find it embarrassing taking a girl to the movies, It just does not make me feel comfortable

🙂 Also I feel like some Romeo or something.........and it's just not me

Originally posted by K.Diddy
Does that mean I have to pay for her ticket?

😕 I dont care but will she expect that ?

If you are going out with her and/or just recently started, she might not feel comftorable having you pay for the ticked. If you are just friends and getting closer, it is ok to ask her if she wana pay for the ticked, if she says yes, then accept it.

Originally posted by Darth Macabre

If she's a "girly girl" then I just take her out to dinner.

That is way to uncomfortable for me..

I am just not the sort of guy that likes stuff like that

Ask her about the concert. If she says yes, and offers to pay, then you know to keep her. If she says yes, and expects you to pay, then leave her, shes not worth it. Atleast thats my opinion.

But if you have the money, then always pay.

Originally posted by K.Diddy
That is way to uncomfortable for me..

I am just not the sort of guy that likes stuff like that

It's time for you to get the taste of the real world. Shut up, buckle up, and get used to it. You will get more action from one girl over a period of time then with another over a one night stand!

Now do as I say and take her out to dinner. And you better like it, or else. gunsmilie

Originally posted by Darth Macabre
Ask her about the concert. If she says yes, and offers to pay, then you know to keep her. If she says yes, and expects you to pay, then leave her, shes not worth it. Atleast thats my opinion.

But if you have the money, then always pay.

Cause it's the first time I have taken her out, I wonder if I pay will she expect that all the time?

It's just I am a marijuana smoker with a crap factory job, I'm not exactly a millionare, but she gets paid more than me, so I think she will offer to pay anyway 🙂

Originally posted by Sgt. Hairy
It's time for you to get the taste of the real world. Shut up, buckle up, and get used to it. You will get more action from one girl over a period of time then with another over a one night stand!

Now do as I say and take her out to dinner. And you better like it, or else. gunsmilie

😂 I will think about it..............but going outfor dinner really is not the thing for me😕

Originally posted by K.Diddy
Cause it's the first time I have taken her out, I wonder if I pay will she expect that all the time?

It's just I am a marijuana smoker with a crap factory job, I'm not exactly a millionare, but she gets paid more than me, so I think she will offer to pay anyway 🙂

lol.

If she's a good, wholesome girl, then she wont expect you to pay all the time. If shes a raging snob, then yes she will think you're going to pay for it all.

Originally posted by Darth Macabre
lol.

If she's a good, wholesome girl, then she wont expect you to pay all the time. If shes a raging snob, then yes she will think you're going to pay for it all.

😉 Okay, I will give it a try and see what happens

Meh, I was under the impression that most 21st century Australian girls go for the 50-50 split.

Good luck.

Originally posted by Imaginary
Meh, I was under the impression that most 21st century Australian girls go for the 50-50 split.

Well my last girlfriend just used to pay her way and I used to pay mine.

Originally posted by Darth Macabre
Good luck.

🙂 Thanks