it was not harmed because it was silver, but rather because it was a projectile shot into its delicate vital area.
the reason the clown "died" was because the kids stood up to it.
thats why the "battery acid" a.k.a. asthma breather also harmed it.
they were battling a telepathic projection of their fears, so once they
did not fear it, it was powerless. the actual incarnation of 'it', however was not, as we see the "battery acid" had no effect and the silver bounced off its head.
so really there are only two possible battlefieds:
1-it attacks violator through telepathic projection, upon which violator would probably laugh in his face---stalemate
2-violator goes to it's lair and attacks the physical incarnation, killing it instantly
however, there is the unlikely: that the physical it's 'dead lights' would have the same hyponotic effect on violator, upon which it might stand a chance of winning.