Someone please help me

Please someone. My best friend in the world is sitting in a collage far away from crying her eyes out because of some ******* she's been in love with for like half her life. I just got off the phone with her ( She wanted to go to bed) but I feel horrible, I couln't say anything to help her. I tried so hard cry

Please help me to help her...

And please if you dont have any help, dont post anything

Saying nothing but listening to everything is sometimes the best help you can give.

-AC

I know but its so hard because this ******* has treated my friend like shit for a long time and she is completly inlove with him. cry

Originally posted by LiL nAstY GirL
I know but its so hard because this ******* has treated my friend like shit for a long time and she is completly inlove with him. cry

She needs to ask herself why she wants to be in love with someone who treats her like shit.

Here is an idea:

1- Change your sig

2- Not your Problem.

Nothing you can do.

if she si so Dumb and stuck up to keep on likeing him after he has done all that to her, There is nothign you can do or say EVER to ever make her change her mind.

She will be sad and hurt all her life.

Only she can do something.

tell her to leave him, if she say's she wont or can't, then the best thing for your friend is to get her heart broken, I know it seems harsh, but in these kind of case's, it's the only thing you can do.

Don't pressure her or anything, just let her find her own way out, eventually, she will be better and have moved on, till then, just be her best friend, nothing more.

Originally posted by KENobi™
She needs to ask herself why she wants to be in love with someone who treats her like shit.

I was kinda telling her that. I said to her, "Look, you've gotta let him go..He treats you like shit." But she is badly in love with him. She said she would drop everything to come back home if he would go out with her. She said she would be happy living on the street if she had him

I understand she's your friend, but the best thing you can do right now is be an honest friend.

She's being rather overdramatic about the situation. You've obviously made it clear, but some people just won't be told or won't hear anything until it's too late.

-AC

It can be hard to give friends honest advice in a situation like that, but really there's not much you can do beyond listen to her and be there for her, and be honest with her. She might get upset with you now but in the long run she will thank you.

Originally posted by KENobi™
She needs to ask herself why she wants to be in love with someone who treats her like shit.

What Kenboi said. Also she can find someone way better then that prick. She needs to move on, if she just stays in love with that ass, she might miss the chance to meat someone that could really love her and treat her much better. It's gonna hurt at 1st but then once she finds a new love, she'll laugh at how she was EVER in love with a loser like him.

Originally posted by Koala MeatPie

Here is an idea:

1- Change your sig

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yeah, since were're giving you great advice here, can you please change your sig...............it's gross*shivers with goosebumps*kermit

Originally posted by Lana
It can be hard to give friends honest advice in a situation like that, but really there's not much you can do beyond listen to her and be there for her, and be honest with her. She might get upset with you now but in the long run she will thank you.

Originally posted by Koala MeatPie

1- Change your sig

Seriously. Im skim reading her posts and scrolling so I dont have an ass staring at me all the time.

Imagine having moniter burn-in with that pic 😂

Originally posted by LiL nAstY GirL
Yeah I thought about that. I know if I said what I should say I'd only add more shit for her to deal with so tomorrow when she calms down a bit I'll talk to her

That probably would be best, give her a bit of time to calm down and think things through.

And really, don't worry that you weren't able to say anything, it's very hard to really say anything when you're in that spot and it's best to just make sure that they know you're there and will listen if they need to talk.

Thank you Lana

Why dont you just confront the guy and tell him off and shit.

See I would post more but that sig is just a put off.

Originally posted by Koala MeatPie
Here is an idea:

1- Change your sig

Originally posted by Mišt
Why dont you just confront the guy and tell him off and shit.

See I would post more but that sig is just a put off.

I dont know him

Wait, are they already going out, or is she just in love with him?

Sometimes, people can' t just control their emotions. By trial and error we learn what it is we really want in our love life and that makes all the heartbreaks worth the pain. We learn what we want and don’ t want in a partner, the traits we find attractive and those that we can live without.

Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam.