Originally posted by AbnormalButSane
I realize I am using sex to attain a temporary happiness. Now if only I could do it all the time, I might be able to attain permanent happiness.
I'm not one to talk really at the moment, as I'm not really that happy myself, but using sex to attain happiness doesn't seem like a good idea. If nothing makes you happy except sex then you probably should evaluate that.
My ex always said if you can't be happy with who you are then you can't make the ones you want to be happy, happy.
For me it was ironic because technically she's right.
Originally posted by Kaibs
I'm not one to talk really at the moment, as I'm not really that happy myself, but using sex to attain happiness doesn't seem like a good idea. If nothing makes you happy except sex then you probably should evaluate that.My ex always said if you can't be happy with who you are then you can't make the ones you want to be happy, happy.
For me it was ironic because technically she's right.
...yes I know it's unhealthy but I've quit smoking since we started. 😛
Originally posted by AbnormalButSane
But this isn't just any sex. It's fantastic sex with someone I actually like....yes I know it's unhealthy but I've quit smoking since we started. 😛
Heh... I know what you mean, but I think you're missing the point. Which is okay. Anyways good luck, I hope you find what you're looking for.
And congrats on quitting smoking.
Originally posted by Kaibs
Heh... I know what you mean, but I think you're missing the point. Which is okay. Anyways good luck, I hope you find what you're looking for.And congrats on quitting smoking.
I do understand the point. I don't feel it is my responsibility to make others happy, even the ones I like. That is something they should achieve on their own. I'm too busy searching for my own source of happiness.
Thank you though.