tell the truth about your self...

sounds like you are having fun overall, good luck rudster 🙂

He's so nice and is always smiling. When I see him he welcomes me with a giant hug. He's down to earth humble. He's intelligent, witty, cultured, international and handsome... I'm just intimidated by his money. Would you be intimidated by someone who never has to work?

yes I would, honestly he sounds like me a bit but I would be very wary of someone who has never had to work

I woke up and thought to myself.... I think I'm going break up with him, he's to perfect, he's Mr Grey. I haven't exactly told him I'm an average Joe compared to him, he's done most of the talking.. I'm a young professional trying to make something of myself and pay my bills on time. He's already owned several businesses around the world, educated in France and other parts of the world..currently works in Asia. I know money isn't a problem but it does matter. He just makes me feel so good and i haven't had a normal person in a long time. He's a big nerd and i enjoy that about him. Why end a good thing? Because i live under the sea and he lives in a castle by the sea. How do i end it?

want my advice?

or are you just happy to vent ?

Maybe just not end it? Just talk about your fears.

Sure go ahead...

Originally posted by rudester
I woke up and thought to myself.... I think I'm going break up with him, he's to perfect, he's Mr Grey. I haven't exactly told him I'm an average Joe compared to him, he's done most of the talking.. I'm a young professional trying to make something of myself and pay my bills on time. He's already owned several businesses around the world, educated in France and other parts of the world..currently works in Asia. I know money isn't a problem but it does matter. He just makes me feel so good and i haven't had a normal person in a long time. He's a big nerd and i enjoy that about him. Why end a good thing? Because i live under the sea and he lives in a castle by the sea. How do i end it?

I am getting the vibe from you that you do this quite a bit, the whole break things off because you feel insecure (I may be wrong so feel free to correct me)
he is everything you seem to like and are happy with but are intimidated by the money he has and possibly just self-doubting things which may or may not be something you do regularly.

my advice; take a deep breath, nut up and go for gold. you said you are happy with this fella and I reckon you would be. I could say have confidence in yourself but that takes time and this is now so digest those butterflies and go for it. give it two weeks and if things don't settle down for you in anyway then break it off but this sounds like a good situation you are in so don't let this be a "maybe" situation

my advice; take a deep breath, nut up and go for gold
my advice; take a deep breath, nut up and go for gold
my advice; take a deep breath, nut up and go for gold

And if you feel insecure, go for the self-improvements!

Always have a goal, but do it for yourself and no one else.

(Sorry for getting in here uninvited 😛)

I am so insecure.....thanks for the advice ill take it.

You shouldn't be, there must be something that makes you special for him. 👆

I'm wondering what the heck happened to the avatar feature on here.

I'm using jpegs and a gif but now it won't upload even though these the requirements to get them reshaped.

The older I get, the harder I find it to cope with things emotionally awehuhs

I wish Angel the Vampire with a Soul would get made a movie to wrap up cliffhangers.

i wish feelings didnt have the potential to shut a individual down

I have a couple gray hairs.

i am still Horny

As a kid I thought the actors and actresses when I saw movies in movie theaters were really up there on locations when the movie is shown.

I can see my hair regrowing and will feel amazing when my hair is fully regrown.
Since my hair t's so sacred and invaluable to me it's almost as if it's a second soul.

I am pants shittingly scared of driving. On a scale of 1 - 10 I'm some where between bed wetting and a near death experience when I get behind the wheel.

The last 2 days I have been unhappy to have a case of weighed down hair. I really hope it's not 3 days in a row as hair that is weighed down I hate more than split ends.