Originally posted by silver_tears
I'm just so repulsed by it, and everytime one touches me even "on purpose by accident" I have to work so hard to repress the shudder that my mother taught me is rude. 🙄
wow. no i've never been close to harrased physically thankfully. but haha had quite the few VERY uncomfy experiences dealing with suggestive and inappropriate talks to looks.
😘
and one of those people i LOOKED UP to!
i adored the "funny old genteman". everyone warned me about his creepy abilities but i paid no heed.
well i should have.
Originally posted by Punkyhermy
wow. no i've never been close to harrased physically thankfully. but haha had quite the few VERY uncomfy experiences dealing with suggestive and inappropriate talks to looks.
😘and one of those people i LOOKED UP to!
i adored the "funny old genteman". everyone warned me about his creepy abilities but i paid no heed.
well i should have.
Oh yeah it's pretty bad at times.
It got to the point of me being stalked when I was in Paris.
And people take far too many liberties sometimes when they see a pretty girl.
I have body issues so I don't wear revealing clothes and "ask for it" like some douche bags would say, yet people still manage to take the chance to rub my back or try to pull off shoulder rubs and stuff all the time.
I mean the leering and inappropriate comments I can stop with one withering look, but the touching makes me feel dirty.
I have a really big issue with personal space, I really don't like anyone touching me, like not even people I know.
Unless we have an intimate relationship, it's like keep your hands off please.
Originally posted by silver_tears
And people take far too many liberties sometimes when they see a pretty girl.
I have body issues so I don't wear revealing clothes and "ask for it" like some douche bags would say, yet people still manage to take the chance to rub my back or try to pull off shoulder rubs and stuff all the time.
I mean the leering and inappropriate comments I can stop with one withering look, but the touching makes me feel dirty.
On a personal note, I hate anyone who does that.
Originally posted by silver_tears
Oh yeah it's pretty bad at times.It got to the point of me being stalked when I was in Paris.
And people take far too many liberties sometimes when they see a pretty girl.
I have body issues so I don't wear revealing clothes and "ask for it" like some douche bags would say, yet people still manage to take the chance to rub my back or try to pull off shoulder rubs and stuff all the time.
I mean the leering and inappropriate comments I can stop with one withering look, but the touching makes me feel dirty.I have a really big issue with personal space, I really don't like anyone touching me, like not even people I know.
Unless we have an intimate relationship, it's like keep your hands off please.
Oh jesus yes.
I had one guy older than my DAD hit on me.
*shutter*
Originally posted by silver_tears
As do I.
Like just because I'm pretty some men think that it's okay to treat me like that, as if I'm craving for that kind of attention.
I just think if a guy lays his hand on a girl, with out her permission, in a provocative manner is uncalled for. Gives guys a bad rep.
Originally posted by silver_tears
You two need to buck up, if it's meant to be etc etc...
ha.haha.haha.
its like i said before i need to pull myself together major. i'm not gonna get anywhere with this.😬
and yeah...i think it just took us bys surprise. we've...always had this strange almost wishy washy knowing of each other where the line between whats intended and whats not was always blurred. oh yes we talked of meeting up and made plans et al all amidst laughing and teasing and pokes. so when he comes and announces all of a sudden, i;m coming to d.c...i was pretty shocked. its just that we never conciously planned it...and now he's come and gone and all i am left with is a whole lot of confused thoughts.😬