Originally posted by howaboutno
I'm just trying to get any help i can get... I'm scared shitless idk what to doto the person above, i really can't go to my parents right now. because if it turned out I wasn't, they would never trust me again, and I don't wanna risk it if it turns out i'm not
Get a friend or someone you trust to take you to the doctor, or go to your school's health center. It's the only way you'll be able to know for sure.
Good luck.
Originally posted by howaboutnoPeers, teachers, people that you know on a personal basis
I'm just trying to get any help i can get... I'm scared shitless idk what to doto the person above, i really can't go to my parents right now. because if it turned out I wasn't, they would never trust me again, and I don't wanna risk it if it turns out i'm not
not these sickos on a forum
*looks at bloigen*
we cant be trusted, except for the mods
and even they're crazy
*looks at lana*
Quick question, how old are you? I ask this because you seem very concerned regarding your parents trust in you, but they are most likely the people who can offer the most help.
If they stop trusting you, then you accept that you made a mistake and try to earn their trust back.
I would avoid trusting people (most of whom are too young to realize the consequences of their never mind your actions) on a movie forum.
Originally posted by howaboutno
I'm 18. I'm a freshman in college, which my parents are paying for. if i'm pregnant and i keep it, there will be no college for me. I wont be able to live my dream. I've ****ed everything up
Many girls that have children attend college after they've had a child.
I had a friend who's father was left to take care of him when he was 16 years old. With no help from his family the guy not only raised his son by himself but is now a nuero surgeon in one of Canada's best hospitals.
Not to be preachy, but perhaps others can learn from your experience. Sex, as great as it is, can have serious reprocutions. You better be prepaired for the responsibilty if you are going to choose to engage in such acts.
Originally posted by howaboutno
I'm 18. I'm a freshman in college, which my parents are paying for. if i'm pregnant and i keep it, there will be no college for me. I wont be able to live my dream. I've ****ed everything up
you made a mistake. your going to have to deal with the consequences. i've learnt that resently, and it sucks. but you have alot of peoples surport. if you need someone to talk to. just pm and i'll get back to you soon as i can. try not to worry.
Originally posted by melinda_warren
you made a mistake. your going to have to deal with the consequences. i've learnt that resently, and it sucks. but you have alot of peoples surport. if you need someone to talk to. just pm and i'll get back to you soon as i can. try not to worry.
melinda_warren , as good as your intentions are, I would suggest that you personally stay out of the situation and let her take care of it with the current support structure that is available to her in her real life as opposed to those online.
You are not trained to handle or completely aware of the situation or options available to her and could possible make the situation worse.
As honourable as you intentions are, you may end up complicating the situation.
Originally posted by howaboutno
see it's not that i didn't have my period, it's that i had it 2 weeks early...
i heard that could mean i'm getting prego... but i think i'm not
i'm not showing any other signs
it would be too early to anyways
Yeah, sometimes it can just be irregular.
If you aren't feeling any other symptoms, then chill out.
If you don't have your next period in 4-5 weeks from now, then you should be concerned.
Until then, you and your boyfriend should use both comdoms and the pill if you choose to have sex.
(though I know my sister-in-law had one of her 3 daughters that way, rare, but it still happens.)
Originally posted by howaboutno
I'm just trying to get any help i can get... I'm scared shitless idk what to doto the person above, i really can't go to my parents right now. because if it turned out I wasn't, they would never trust me again, and I don't wanna risk it if it turns out i'm not
🙂 I wouldn't panic too much about it, the same thing happened to my ex girlfriend (dont know what brand of pills) but she was taking something to not get pregnant anyway 😂 and yeah,same thing happened and it was just because of the pills and I dont think she was taking them all the time either 🙂
Originally posted by howaboutno
yeah, i'm at school i wont even get to see him for like 3 more weeks... so none for me for a while anyways...
but we do anyways
we always use condoms
cuz i can't remember my dang pill
Condoms can break,it's rare but it does happen,also sperm can still come out of your boyfriend before he actually ''Ejaculates''
🙂