should i let myself be used?

Started by Lovely Murder3 pages

should i let myself be used?

ive been working on a project for a week now, and its finally done, and its due tomorrow...

there are these two guys i like though, who were both in the same group, and they havent even started it yet....

at the beginning of the project i asked to be in their group, and they said no, so i did my project solo...

now their asking to be in my group, because im done and they havent even started...

the thing is, i really like them, and i think i have a shot at one of them...

i dont know what to do... 🙁

No way. Why would you want to go out with a freeloading bastard anyway? You did the work so just politely say no or lie or be vague but do not let them scalp off you.

Re: should i let myself be used?

Originally posted by Lovely Murder
ive been working on a project for a week now, and its finally done, and its due tomorrow...

there are these two guys i like though, who were both in the same group, and they havent even started it yet....

at the beginning of the project i asked to be in their group, and they said no, so i did my project solo...

now their asking to be in my group, because im done and they havent even started...

the thing is, i really like them, and i think i have a shot at one of them...

i dont know what to do... 🙁


Why not... who's it gonna hurt?

Originally posted by MASTERdeBATER
Why not... who's it gonna hurt?

Exactly... Who will it hurt?

Would you rather screw them over and make them fail this project or let them in andaybe make friends?

i think you shouldn't let them in, be nice but say that you've already done the work on this project

Originally posted by Vinny Valentine
Exactly... Who will it hurt?

Would you rather screw them over and make them fail this project or let them in andaybe make friends?


*Sihg*Here's something that may teach you on what happens if you do the project for them

1.Tell them no.Make them fail so they can learn the lesson to do their own work,if they don't learn this,then they'll most likely never succeed in life on their own.

2.Or do it for them and after that they'll use you to achieve their own ends.

I'd go with #1 ,if I were you.Give them an inch,and they'll take a mile.😉

Originally posted by Mysterious Man
1.Tell them no.Make them fail so they can learn the lesson to do their own work,if they don't learn this,then they'll most likely never succeed in life on their own.

2.Or do it for them and after that they'll use you to achieve their own ends.

I'd go with #1 ,if I were you.


Or you can look at it on the other hand.... let them, be used, and learn from that. Either way it's a lesson for somebody, so wouldn't you want to learn more then them?

Originally posted by MASTERdeBATER
Or you can look at it on the other hand.... let them, be used, and learn from that. Either way it's a lesson for somebody, so wouldn't you want to learn more then them?
There is no 'other hand',if these guys are doing this ,then they're freeloading sleezebags,I should know,this happened to me when I was in High School.Don't do it,kiddo,you'll be screwing yourself and them over,the best thing to do is just tell them like it is,remember,they won't learn anything if they don't work for it. 😉

Originally posted by Mysterious Man
There is no 'other hand',if these guys are doing this ,then they're freeloading sleezebags,I should know,this happened to me when I was in High School.Don't do it,kiddo,you'll be screwing yourself and them over,the best thing to do is just tell them like it is,remember,they won't learn anything if they don't work for it. 😉

so you gave your work to a guy you liked and he screwed you?

Well it that case, go for it sweetie. I would do it.

Tell 'em To Go **** Themselves, or Each Other. 😬

Who cares how tight their pants are, that's Just Stupid.

Originally posted by MASTERdeBATER
so you gave your work to a guy you liked and he screwed you?

Well it that case, go for it sweetie. I would do it.

No,it was one of the more popular guys at school,thought I could be friends with him,I was wrong,I'm straight BTW 😉

Originally posted by Mysterious Man
No,it was one of the more popular guys at school,thought I could be friends with him,I was wrong,I'm straight BTW 😉

Prove it

Don't have to,I'm straight,remember?

Re: should i let myself be used?

Originally posted by Lovely Murder
ive been working on a project for a week now, and its finally done, and its due tomorrow...

there are these two guys i like though, who were both in the same group, and they havent even started it yet....

at the beginning of the project i asked to be in their group, and they said no, so i did my project solo...

now their asking to be in my group, because im done and they havent even started...

the thing is, i really like them, and i think i have a shot at one of them...

i dont know what to do... 🙁

🙂 If you really like this guy(he is proberly a jerk but anyway) let them join and see what happens,but keep in mind he is proberly just using you, I would personally tell the guy to **** off😕

should i let myself be used?

✅ yes and then have a threesome and video it and send it to me! 😖hifty:

I mean.. NO!!! freeloaders I hate them!! 😒

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Re: should i let myself be used?

Originally posted by Lovely Murder
ive been working on a project for a week now, and its finally done, and its due tomorrow...

there are these two guys i like though, who were both in the same group, and they havent even started it yet....

at the beginning of the project i asked to be in their group, and they said no, so i did my project solo...

now their asking to be in my group, because im done and they havent even started...

the thing is, i really like them, and i think i have a shot at one of them...

i dont know what to do... 🙁

Let me guess, your name is Hermione, and your friends are Ron and Harry? 😕

Originally posted by Tired Hiker
Let me guess, your name is Hermione, and your friends are Ron and Harry? 😕

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Originally posted by Lovely Murder
ive been working on a project for a week now, and its finally done, and its due tomorrow...

there are these two guys i like though, who were both in the same group, and they havent even started it yet....

at the beginning of the project i asked to be in their group, and they said no, so i did my project solo...

now their asking to be in my group, because im done and they havent even started...

the thing is, i really like them, and i think i have a shot at one of them...

i dont know what to do... 🙁


tell them no.
they had their chance to be in the same group. and they refused. let them learn their lesson. Otherwise you become easy prey. and they will use you like that everytime.

Originally posted by BakaXero
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tell them no.
they had their chance to be in the same group. and they refused. let them learn their lesson. Otherwise you become easy prey. and they will use you like that everytime.

Yeah, and wear something sexy and revealing, like show sum naval, maybe a bit of cleave. Then be like, "Hey boys, I want to tell you something in private." Take them to the back of the class, and then just be like . . . . . "No." 😄

Originally posted by Piggle Humsy
✅ yes and then have a threesome and video it and send it to me! 😖hifty:

I was about to suggest the very same thing😐
GIGGITY GIGGITY GIGGITY OOOH!

Nah, don't let them join....If they fail, it's their own fault.