Originally posted by ILoveMyDaniel
Well, for all of you who knew about Daniel and I, for now, it's official, it's over. I hated being with someone who I fought with 24/7 and he never cared about me enough to include me in anything and always went out at his own will. We were together for a year, 5 months and 5 days. I'm not looking for sympathy, I'm just looking for some pick-me-ups or some stories. Has anyone ever been in a LONG relationship and it didn't work out? I'm just needing comfort.
About 9 mounths ago I told you that the end of your relationship was nigh...lo and behold!
You come across very very clingy!
Originally posted by Roulette
Sorry to hear that🙁Break-ups sure are hard. It's important to remember that there are people who you can talk to, people who love you...your friends... your family. They can offer their support. It'll help, too, because it's hard to overcome a break-up on your own. You shouldn't keep the feelings inside..y'know?
Originally posted by Neo_Version 7
Dude, that sucks.I remember you were like head-over-heels with that dude last year.
Guess it was never meant to be, huh?
Originally posted by Grand_Moff_Gav
About 9 mounths ago I told you that the end of your relationship was nigh...lo and behold!You come across very very clingy!
Originally posted by Mišt✅
Jeez people need to relax...she obviously loved the dude and now its over, you dont just push aside something like that instantly....kind of a big blow.
Sorry to hear about the loss. Whenever I had a big break up I noticed I missed the thought of our good times really and not the person I stopped dating because it went sour. Once I realized that it wasn't so hard simply because as I said I was constantly dreamy over the best of times.
Once I realized how much I disliked how we had become and the reality of my/our situation I recovered quickly because it wasn't happy it was miserable.
Daniels, life goes on. The sooner you start to disassociate-the sooner your healing process begins. First, change your name. That's the best start in the right direction. Once you start psychologically saying to yourself he's out of your life, your healing will start. You're in a world of hurt, and it is not fun. But, breakups are truly one of the best character shaper/definers that can ever happen to you in life...."what doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger". Fewer things, if any, are more profound in life than the loss of a loved one.
Besides, you're still young, and have a ton of men to date still. Chances are you'll go through a major breakup 2 or 3 more times, before things work out again. I speak the truth.
Keep your chin up. Hang out with your family and friends. Pick up a hobby or sport. Don't talk to the ex, unless necessary so you don't come off like a *****. You don't want to be rude, but you must look out for # 1 only right now.
That's the best advice I can give you. It, of course, does not have to taken.