What do women find more attractive: Arrogance or humility?

I prefer a man that has a lot more humility but the other women here are right, theres gotta be a balance

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
Depends tho.

? You're telling me in a circumstance you'd rather date some sorry loser who is always being stepped over? Because he is "Sensative".

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
hhmm...I don't even get this myth.Why oh WHY would I as a female be attracted to someone who will potentially treat me like shit? I see like NO logic in that. 😕 🙄

And arrogance is one of the biggest turn offs for me. See at the begining of the year I developed this crush on this guy. It was only after getting to interact with him on a few occasions that my attitude towards him turned stone cold. He.was.a.bastard. Not at all what he appeared to be. Like Hello. Get over yourself. And what's worse is idiotic, blinded arrogance. 🙄

Punky, even though i may be a badboy at times, i applaud your statement.gunsmilie

Originally posted by NineCoronas
Ok.

I like my guys arrogant.

😐

There is a woman for every type of man.

But if you read my post again, you'll see what I meant 😉😉😉😉😉😉😉😉

Women don't trust men who aren't arrogant/stupid.
Those guys are weeeeird...

Originally posted by Mišt
But if you read my post again, you'll see what I meant 😉😉😉😉😉😉😉😉

😂 Good times.

Originally posted by NineCoronas
Ok.

I like my guys arrogant.

😐

I like my guys with some fava beans and a nice chianti.

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
hhmm...I don't even get this myth.Why oh WHY would I as a female be attracted to someone who will potentially treat me like shit? I see like NO logic in that. 😕 🙄

And since when does logic play a part in attraction or romance?
You cant help who you're attracted to, even if you know its a bad idea.

Originally posted by Xirius
And since when does logic play a part in attraction or romance?
You cant help who you're attracted to, even if you know its a bad idea.

EDIT: And who you fall far almost always defies logic.

Depends on the woman. Those with a strong, positive self-image, who see themselves deserving of someone of quality, will choose humble over arrogant, since arrogance tends to be compensation for insecurity (which is one reason why arrogance is attractive to insecure women).

Women watch Omen on 06/06/06 and then you should know...oh men!

Romance and Vibes and Love does not seem to be logical, but there is a formula ounce you understand the logic behind it.

www.doubleyourdating.com

Originally posted by Morgoths_Wrath
Okay, question for the ladies. Assuming that a guy you’re meeting is relatively good looking and funny, would you find him more attractive if he was arrogant or if he was more humble? Why?

Arrogance is about as unattractive as ignorance is. So humble it is.

Yeah, arrogance won't get very far with any girl, especially if she's strong and independent. But I also must interject that humbleness can be a bad quality too sometimes. What is mean is that I've been working in a field of finance where a lot of my customers are usually couples, and I've lost count of how many times the wife/girlfriend gets pissed that the guy won't decide definitively on something. It's usually because he's being humble when she asks him about what they should do with decision "X" and he says "I don't know, whatever you want". Stuff like that.

IMO I think girls sometimes want the guy to be a very little arrogant and make the decisions for both of them, like when it's choosing a restaurant or a movie, instead of the usual "I don't know honey, whatever you want." But again, too much arrogance is bad.

Originally posted by Morgoths_Wrath
Okay, question for the ladies. Assuming that a guy you’re meeting is relatively good looking and funny, would you find him more attractive if he was arrogant or if he was more humble? Why?

humble, because arrogant people suck.
that's pretty much it.

If you are attracted to a badboy or badgirl, then so be it. If you are attracted to a humiliating guy or girl, then so be it. You can not control your attractions. If you want a person, the only thing that may hold you back, is shyness.

I refuse to believe women like quiet and humble guys, they don't do anything for them and they get bored... really bored... and go off with the arrogant/loudmouth/bad boy because he's exciting and cougheasily controlledandhasalotmoremoneyduringbirthdayschristmasvalentinesday anniversaries etc.cough.

Also the sexual side, like sithsaber408 put it:

(They "like" humble guys.

They want to have their pants pulled off and get their booty thumped by an arrogant guy.)