well yeah that incident certainly changed your mind about her and when watching her movies you would deffinitely see her as a different person!
when we watch some movies and we pick some actors as our favourite ones, we start liking them and creating a positive image about their real life character too, so film by film you sympathize thyem even more... I dont think you are overeacting, as a matter of fact i would have felt the same way too! btw i dont like her, there are way too better actresses
The thing that really irks me about some of these celebrities is their hypocritical nature at times. They have every right to say to someone 'hey, I don't know you.' Which is perfectly cool because it's true, they don't know you. Just because you seem them on TV everyday or in a movie doesn't mean you know them.
So, that's not what bothers me, the thing that bothers me is when they want you or better yet need you to know who they are. Like in those 'Punked' episodes, especially the one's that involve them getting arrested for something bogus, they always say 'you know me man, I'm on TV, you know who I am, c'mon you know me.' I think Brandy's was the best, when she cried to that cop about how her and her brother were good kids. 'You know us, you see us on TV, you know we're good kids'...pftt...whatever.
Kobe is another example that also comes to mind during that whole rape trial thing. When he did his little speech about 'C'mon you know me man, you know I wouldn't do this'...pfttt...no mutha****a I don't know you, I don't know if you did that sh^t or not!
Anyway, in my personal experiences most celebs that I've met are pretty cool, especially the athletes. But I'm not the type to get all excited over meeting them anyway and most are cool about that. Again, the one's that really bother me are the ones who want you to know who they are, so if you ignore them, they get pissed. They'll be like 'don't you know who I am'? There's 2 guys that go to my gym that piss me off with that stuff. One of them is really famous and the other one has had like small roles in movies but can't stop bragging about it. I ignore both of them but some people kiss their ass.
Btw, this reminds me of an amusing celebrity run in of my own. I was sitting at an oceanside restaurant and I had a really nice seat with a really nice view and this celebrity came in, walked over to me and stood right in front of me and said 'Hey, what's up?' I recognized him but I just played it off and said 'Hey' back and that was it and he walked away kinda pissed. I knew he wanted me to recognize him because he wanted my seat. He later came over with his agent and the rest of his posse, including hot chicks, and admitted that he did want my seat. He turned out to be pretty cool.