Question for the ladies

Started by A.J11 pages

any ladies go for 15/16 year olds 😖hifty:

Chest hair is sexy. Only on the top. If it goes down in a straight line and circles around the belly button, thats not attractive.
Huge beards aren't attractive, but I think a little stuble is nice. =P

I don't mind if a guy cries if it's something really sad, but if they cry everyday over little things, I feel awkward.

Just my input... if it matters.. =P

Originally posted by xredemption
Chest hair is sexy. Only on the top. If it goes down in a straight line and circles around the belly button, thats not attractive.
Huge beards aren't attractive, but I think a little stuble is nice. =P

I don't mind if a guy cries if it's something really sad, but if they cry everyday over little things, I feel awkward.

Just my input... if it matters.. =P

yes, thanks you, you input matters! 😄

I like guys that are real... and dont try to live up the plastic steriotypes by the culture of what men "should" be like. I like it when their willing to show their emotions and be who they truely are. Thats a turn on to me.

Mysta> Different women prefer different things, you know? 🙂
I think it’s about a composite personality, a guy who can relax with his masculinity and realises he has a feminine side which doesn’t scare him.

yep 🙂

sounds like me lol

Sensitivity, very caring, able to cry in front of me, but at the same time dont be a "crybaby", because thats my job.baby

" Falsehood, cowardice, and poor descent,
Three things that women hold in hate. "

Two Gentlemen of Verona -- III. 2...... Shakespeare

Originally posted by =Mysta=-kILL
So I was wondering, what do you women prefer in a guy. Would you rather have him be a sensative caring man who cares about how people feel or how he makes them feel, or do your prefer the stong, scraggly, tough man that can take care of you and defend you.
I myself am a little bit of both, I am very sensative to others feelings, not sensative in a way that I cry about every little thing, but yes I do cry sometimes if something terrible, or really sad happens. Most of my friend are girls and they are because I find that girls make much better friends. They dont force peer pressure upon as most guys, and they are nice and caring, not to mention easy to talk to about anything. Some may consider me as metro-sexual. I think maybe I am because hey, I care about the way I look, I am a guy who uses a hairdryer after taking a shower. Not because I am femenine or anything, I just care about how I look.

So my question is: which do you prefer, tough or sensative?


Not exactly a valid question to ask a woman considering each and every woman has different preferences when it comes to men and what women like about them.
I'll give you my opinions though.
I like a sensitive man who's not afraid to attach himself to me and tell me his feelings for me, even if that means showing his affection towards me in front of his friends. Tough is okay, but not for me. That doesn't go to say that I don't want a man who won't defend for me if something ever comes up, but I do not like a man who completely goes out of his way to beat up an old boyfriend just because he broke up me. And to bring up what ThePrincessBee said, I like a man who'd not a baby but is able to cry in front of me or to me on the phone so I can comfort him. Daniel used to be that way before we broke up and got back together, but now he's toughened up and stopped showing his more emotional side to me because he doesn't want to get too attached if something were to happen between us again. It breaks my heart to know that, but oh well. What can I say, eh? But anyway, yep that's my preference on men and such.

Originally posted by Penelope
Sensitivity, very caring, able to cry in front of me, but at the same time dont be a "crybaby", because thats my job.baby
I am perfect for all you ladies its me allright 😛

I like layed back boys that like to snow board and hang ten and have pretty eyes and a good adittude and are nice and respectful that's the kinda guy I like. 😮
had one but didn't work out 😖leep:

IMO ladies want someone who will be there for them...........simple........and yet passive people cant do it.

Originally posted by Jonathan Mark
What kind of guy is going to shave his chest? 🙄

Hi2u2.

Strong minded with personality, and wit..........yet a brain is very attractive.

Originally posted by Jonathan Mark
What kind of guy is going to shave his chest? 🙄

Sportsmen, male models, various actors... not such an uncommon thing in todays world. Just a couple a weeks pack one of the news sheets in Australia did a kind of statistical style guide for men - things like manicures, waxes etc aren't so uncommon any more with men, especially in industries like PR, entertainment and corporate.

Originally posted by =Mysta=-kILL
So I was wondering, what do you women prefer in a guy. Would you rather have him be a sensative caring man who cares about how people feel or how he makes them feel, or do your prefer the stong, scraggly, tough man that can take care of you and defend you.
I myself am a little bit of both, I am very sensative to others feelings, not sensative in a way that I cry about every little thing, but yes I do cry sometimes if something terrible, or really sad happens. Most of my friend are girls and they are because I find that girls make much better friends. They dont force peer pressure upon as most guys, and they are nice and caring, not to mention easy to talk to about anything. Some may consider me as metro-sexual. I think maybe I am because hey, I care about the way I look, I am a guy who uses a hairdryer after taking a shower. Not because I am femenine or anything, I just care about how I look.

So my question is: which do you prefer, tough or sensative?

Me personally I don't mind a tough guy who's good to me. The thing about the word sensitive it can be taken different ways. I think the minutes most guys hear it from a girl they think we want them to cry and that's not it we more so just mean a guy that understands and gets us and is sensitive to our needs. If a guy was good to me, respected me and was sensitive to my needs there's nothing I wouldn't do for him. Well almost nothing cause there are some things Femme just doesn't do. lmao

I like the sensitive men. I dont care if you cry its cute to me. I like the guys who could protect me alos but they seem to have and assholeish way bout them.

My men = sensitive.

Originally posted by Bun Bun
I like the sensitive men. I dont care if you cry its cute to me. I like the guys who could protect me alos but they seem to have and assholeish way bout them.

My men = sensitive.

my men= hung like a horse 😍

Originally posted by LethalFemme
my men= hung like a horse 😍

😂

And to answer the question...well...I think a combo of both tough and sensitive is good🙂 I'd love a guy who could defend me, but also understand me.