Bullying?

Started by Pink Maynard3 pages

In my personal expierence, i've never been bullied. I always made friends with everyone, and for those who didn't like me, i would make them take a long walk off a short dock, if you know what i mean. No, but seriously, If i were bullied, i would stick up for myself with words, and not fists. I've only been in one fight in my entire lifetime, and that fight consisted me getting punched in the face by an angry krumper, in which i messed up his krumping, and he punched me in the face. I guess i could've fought back, but that is not my way. But i digress. I've never been "bullied", only because i have mob connections.

Originally posted by Council#13
Different ways to stop a bully:

1. Stand up against him/her
2. Tell an authority (e.g. principal or something)
3. Tell parents (second worst case scenario)
4. Pay him/her (worst case scenario)


When you feel scared, threatened or so annoyed, how is telling this to someone you trust the second worst scenario?

Don' t give in to a bully. Giving up possessions or giving into a bully in anyway encourages the bully to continue.

Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam.

Originally posted by eggmayo
Every bully in my school is just a pussy wannabe gangsta.

They prey on nerds, and stay miles away from me.

i couldnt have said it better myself.... except from staying miles away from you

Originally posted by Storm
When you feel scared, threatened or so annoyed, how is telling this to someone you trust the second worst scenario?

Don' t give in to a bully. Giving up possessions or giving into a bully in anyway encourages the bully to continue.

Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam.

yeah. What she said ✅

The main problem with bully's is that they often have a gang of followers. Especially in high-school, kids are insecure about how to act, how to fit in and how to gain respect. Those suffering these fears can generally be placed in to two categories; bully-posse and bully-victims.
Some choose to suck up to the 'alpha's' and some try to hide.
Having a crew confirms a bully's believe of supremacy, only encouraging his behaviour.
It is very hard for a insecure individual to avoid or counter such a treat.

Originally posted by Pandemoniac
The main problem with bully's is that they often have a gang of followers. Especially in high-school, kids are insecure about how to act, how to fit in and how to gain respect. Those suffering these fears can generally be placed in to two categories; bully-posse and bully-victims.
Some choose to suck up to the 'alpha's' and some try to hide.
Having a crew confirms a bully's believe of supremacy, only encouraging his behaviour.
It is very hard for a insecure individual to avoid or counter such a treat.

wow that has got to be the most intelligent post ever

3 seperate bullies ranging from like 5th to 8th grade.
fought them all, kicked the ass of one, kind of a draw with another,
and got owned by the third. difference between the outcome of all three?
might surprise you.

dont believe that shit about standing up to the bully because then they'll respect you. thats utter horseshit. in fact i had far less problems after getting my ass kicked then when i was the ass kicker. as many have pointed out, people like
this are not right in the head, have self esteem issues, are probably abused and neglected...and kicking their ass is just throwing fuel on the fire and making you their primary focus.

best thing to do is report them to an authority.

Originally posted by PVS
3 seperate bullies ranging from like 5th to 8th grade.
fought them all, kicked the ass of one, kind of a draw with another,
and got owned by the third. difference between the outcome of all three?
might surprise you.

dont believe that shit about standing up to the bully because then they'll respect you. thats utter horseshit. in fact i had far less problems after getting my ass kicked then when i was the ass kicker. as many have pointed out, people like
this are not right in the head, have self esteem issues, are probably abused and neglected...and kicking their ass is just throwing fuel on the fire and making you their primary focus.

best thing to do is report them to an authority.


its a tie between the smartests posts 😎

Originally posted by PVS
3 seperate bullies ranging from like 5th to 8th grade.
fought them all, kicked the ass of one, kind of a draw with another,
and got owned by the third. difference between the outcome of all three?
might surprise you.

dont believe that shit about standing up to the bully because then they'll respect you. thats utter horseshit. in fact i had far less problems after getting my ass kicked then when i was the ass kicker. as many have pointed out, people like
this are not right in the head, have self esteem issues, are probably abused and neglected...and kicking their ass is just throwing fuel on the fire and making you their primary focus.

best thing to do is report them to an authority.

Yes and no. The only chances you have when reporting them is that they will be corrected by their parents (little chance, as they probably rebel against them as well) or be corrected by the school's supervisors. And yes, the latter might work on the schoolyard. But what about the road home? They will have a clue on who ratted them and will retaliate outside of the sight of the 'law'.
The real solution is to gain respect among the neutrals (or even the baddies), so you have people speaking up for you and dis-encouraging the bully to see you as a target. This can be done by being just friendly, humorous ans assistant to the right kind of people. Cause remember, the strongest in class are among those that do not participate in bullying.

I was bullied up until the last day of 6th grade, when one of the biggest bullies to me, decided to physically harm me, by means of punching me in the face. I, fed up with all of the bullying flat out decked him straight in the nose. I broke his nose, and he told his parents that this was all a hate crime due to him being Jewish. He moved to another school, and I haven't been bullied from then on. And a few of the other bullies either feared me, or respected me.

One of the best ways to combat it (without getting an adult involved) is to put them down by using humor to make them feel stupid, or show them that what they are doing doesn't bother you.

Just make sure you know big people.

Then you're sorted. 😎

I ****in hate bullies!

Originally posted by The Pict
stand up to bullies. when they know you'll sock them back if they touch you, they are gonna leave you alone.

Only if there pussy's 😄

From personal experience, some bullies will run at the first sign of you being able to kick THEIR ass (verbally or physically), and some bullies will just beat your ass harder if you piss them off.

In either case, don't take the risk. Tell a teacher.

Originally posted by Captain REX

In either case, don't take the risk. Tell a teacher.

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Pussy 😐

That's why I scared the only bully I ever had shitless, right? He took off screaming when I came at him on a shoddy BMX bike, then tried to be my friend the next day. 😂

Meanwhile, not all kids are big and intimidating. Go see 'The Power of One' and tell that kid that he's pussy.

Okay, I'm in one of those moods where I will post something without reading the first post in this thread.

F*ck bullies! If a guy at school is bullying you around, you should show up the next day and chase his ass around campus with a base ball bat. All I know, if I ever have kids and they get bullied, I'll personally show up to their school and kick some ass myself, right in front of the teachers and everything, that will show them. I think more adults should beat up children for bullying their kids!!!

Re: Bullying?

Originally posted by Lord Paradise
I'm doing a project for school about bullying, where we have to look up what people in other middle school/high schools think about bullying, what problems with bullying you have in your schools, and most importantly what you're doing about the bullying problems in your schools. I've never used the OTF for school before, but I figured it would be a great place to get testimonials from other schools.
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I am Captain REX, and I support this message. w00t

Theres nothing like beating up someone weaker than you,to impress your matesjester