why is my best friend trying to be me

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why is my best friend trying to be me

how do i handle this.. she even dies her hair the same.. 😠

Re: why is my best friend trying to be me

Originally posted by skipping_gurl
how do i handle this.. she even dies her hair the same.. 😠

Just don't wear anything from now on, and see what she does then! 😱

Re: why is my best friend trying to be me

Originally posted by skipping_gurl
how do i handle this.. she even dies her hair the same.. 😠

I had a gay stalker do this to me once, would cut his hair the same, would dress the same, even changed from one job to another after I did. Was creepy. Not quite the same though, you probably don't want her to hate you.

Dunno

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Originally posted by -Tired Hiker-
Just don't wear anything from now on, and see what she does then! 😱
😱

donno she thinks your cool, tell her to stop easy 🙂

"You need to tell her to be herself. I mean . . . I've seen some nasty shit like that before. Frenchies trying to be Curlies . . . It's horrid."

Re: Re: why is my best friend trying to be me

Originally posted by Regret
I had a gay stalker do this to me once, would cut his hair the same, would dress the same, even changed from one job to another after I did. Was creepy. Not quite the same though, you probably don't want her to hate you.

Dunno

thats hell freaky.. yeah she'z like that too.. she'l only get sumthing if i like it.. and she copy'z like what i say n stuff.. i hate it.. !!! its like just be ur own person ... how did u stop it???

Originally posted by Xavius

"You need to tell her to be herself. I mean . . . I've seen some nasty shit like that before. Frenchies trying to be Curlies . . . It's horrid."
😆

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Originally posted by A.J
😱

donno she thinks your cool, tell her to stop easy 🙂

yeah but i dont wanna hurt her feelings.. she might look up to me.. its strange tho.. coz she's older then me

Re: Re: Re: why is my best friend trying to be me

Originally posted by skipping_gurl
thats hell freaky.. yeah she'z like that too.. she'l only get sumthing if i like it.. and she copy'z like what i say n stuff.. i hate it.. !!! its like just be ur own person ... how did u stop it???

Well, he got more aggressive, ended up getting a restraining order against him after beating the crap out of him one night for hiding in my car.

Re: why is my best friend trying to be me

Originally posted by skipping_gurl
how do i handle this.. she even dies her hair the same.. 😠

well 1. you're fine
2. so is your man ermm
just telling tha truth

Re: Re: Re: Re: why is my best friend trying to be me

Originally posted by skipping_gurl
yeah but i dont wanna hurt her feelings.. she might look up to me.. its strange tho.. coz she's older then me
somtimes feelings have to be hurt 🙁

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Originally posted by Regret
Well, he got more aggressive, ended up getting a restraining order against him after beating the crap out of him one night for hiding in my car.

wow.. thats sick as.. i hope she doesnt go that far.. 😮

Re: Re: why is my best friend trying to be me

Originally posted by SpadeKing
well 1. you're fine
2. so is your man ermm
just telling tha truth

thanx darlz.. ur a sweety xox

If this friend of yours K.Diddy?

I could see him putting on lipstick and trying to look like you.

Re: Re: Re: Re: why is my best friend trying to be me

Originally posted by skipping_gurl
yeah but i dont wanna hurt her feelings.. she might look up to me.. its strange tho.. coz she's older then me

Here, check this out . . . I devised some dialogue for you to use with your friend regarding this matter.

You: Hey, you know I love you right?

Friend: Of course, we have the same color hair.

You: Of course. (pause for uncomfortible moment of silence) Well, I think it's time we stop hanging out.

Friend: What???? Why???? Oh my god!!!! Why?????

You: Because I'm sleeping with your father.

Friend: NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

Then she'll get lost and you'll be the most popular girl in school since you are making sweet love to an older man. 😄

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Originally posted by -Tired Hiker-
Here, check this out . . . I devised some dialogue for you to use with your friend regarding this matter.

You: Hey, you know I love you right?

Friend: Of course, we have the same color hair.

You: Of course. (pause for uncomfortible moment of silence) Well, I think it's time we stop hanging out.

Friend: What???? Why???? Oh my god!!!! Why?????

You: Because I'm sleeping with your father.

Friend: NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

Then she'll get lost and you'll be the most popular girl in school since you are making sweet love to an older man. 😄

😆 😆 hahaha.. if only...

Re: Re: Re: why is my best friend trying to be me

Originally posted by skipping_gurl
thanx darlz.. ur a sweety xox

😱 Woohoo I cant wait to tell K. Diddy I was making out with his girl!

Originally posted by Vinny Valentine
If this friend of yours K.Diddy?

I could see him putting on lipstick and trying to look like you.

nah its not K.Diddy.. he's not gay like that he even hates kissing me with lippy on haha.. 😄

I was expecting something different before I read that post TH

I'd just tell her how you feel... What the crap... *checks down below*...yep still a guy...umm yeah

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Originally posted by SpadeKing
😱 Woohoo I cant wait to tell K. Diddy I was making out with his girl!

wow was that makeing out?? i think i missed it soz.. do it again !! 😛