what do i do?

to be serious.
be a friend to her dont criticize what she did wrong. let her talk about whatever shit shes going through. and listen. if she asked advice from you then you give the advice as an option not the ultimatum. let time heal the heartache.

Originally posted by natashia
shes my roomate we live in the same apartment

and for the ass with the nigga' comment

F U C K Y O U ! ! ! ! !

hun, it's his favorite joke, just let it go

i didn't mean you

no one should say such a word. that woord was created in such predjuice and became an insult right from the start . It would be like calling myself a ****. its gross and and an insult on his ancestors as well as to him

Originally posted by natashia
what should i do? i have a friend whos a manic depressive. she is not taking her medicine which i suspect is a big part of the prolbem. She snaps at everything. Its like walking on eggshells on everything. Lately if something isn't done right or in the way she pictures, or i make a false assumption while trying to help her out, she throws a fit. She reviews the list of done me wrongs, and grounds them in with the i told you so's. She broke up with her ex and has a great guy. her ex would want to dress up like a hooker just to have sex. He walked around saying i want some lipstick on my dipstick. He drove her to where she stopped eating for months at a time. he would compare her to his little (ex grilfriend) phillipino in every area. He spent no time with her, was and is a porn addict and would spend all the remaining time watching the speed chnnel. Sometimes alot of times over sex. He wouldn't get viagra or help still wont. is around 42 and a total loser. she loves her new boyfriend jack and is going to move in with him in 2 months. but yet she is going to the races with her loser ex. also she is an exotic dancer and is going out with her tricks who dont know about her boyfriend. and he doesn't know about them. (by the way she is unofficially engaged to her boyfriend. What do i do? how do i knock some sence into her head????

Whoa dude, that is some mess you have gotten into. Does she even want to be helped?? You won't be able to do much unless she realizes that she has a problem and needs help.