What Are You?

Are you the kind of person that who is more optimistic or more pessimistic and what lead you to this thought about yourself?? What influenced you.

#4.
If I'm on a downer, I'm usually an upper.

Originally posted by debbiejo
Are you the kind of person that who is more optimistic or more pessimistic and what lead you to this thought about yourself?? What influenced you.

I'm a Top. Most Tops are pessimistic. You've gotta be reeeeely optimistic to be a bottom..takes a bit of conditioning to..so anyway..I'm more of a pessimist. 🙂

Originally posted by Gay Guy
I'm a Top. Most Tops are pessimistic. You've gotta be reeeeely optimistic to be a bottom..takes a bit of conditioning to..so anyway..I'm more of a pessimist. 🙂

Originally posted by debbiejo
Are you the kind of person that who is more optimistic or more pessimistic and what lead you to this thought about yourself?? What influenced you.

Originally posted by debbiejo
Most tops are pessimistic???.........Isn't that an oxymoron???

Originally posted by Gay Guy
I'm a Top. Most Tops are pessimistic. You've gotta be reeeeely optimistic to be a bottom..takes a bit of conditioning to..so anyway..I'm more of a pessimist. 🙂

keep it in your pants bdsm boy.

i'm more of a realist. i'm not the most positive person in the world at the best of time

Originally posted by debbiejo
Are you the kind of person that who is more optimistic or more pessimistic and what lead you to this thought about yourself?? What influenced you.

I'm an optimistic realist. Being of reasonable intelligence (if it is not to arrogant to say) I am able to practically view the positives outcomes and back them up, while at the same time seeing potential problems.

Thus not a person who blithely and naively believes everything "has to be" alright, but not a person who thinks the worst is bound to happen. And I can also, depending on the situation, be a bit of a pragmatist.

Its impossible to decide what I am... I do not bahave in a certain way... there are big variations and my life is fulll of extreme ups and bottoms( perhaps I just have that bipolar disorder disease).

People could judge me as being more of a pessimistic type, but I am not, I am just not the type who keeps smiling all the time.. sometimes the type of humor I like is confused with pessimism I think.

Originally posted by debbiejo
Are you the kind of person that who is more optimistic or more pessimistic and what lead you to this thought about yourself?? What influenced you.

Hmmm....well...depending on my mood & the situation, my optimism can either increase or decrease. Although, I usually try not to set myself up for a positive outcome, because if I get a negative outcome, I'll take it really hard.

I think I picked up my negativity from my mum^-^ hah.

I try to accept the truth in every situation even if the truth is bad. Facing the truth makes me happier in the long run because I know I'm not living a lie.

Originally posted by Britrogue
I try to accept the truth in every situation even if the truth is bad. Facing the truth makes me happier in the long run because I know I'm not living a lie.

It changes depending on my drugs

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Shouldn't that be 'It changes depending on my mood'? Whatever, I chose that one.

Sure.........It is in most circumstances your choice........true..

Originally posted by Syren
It changes depending on my drugs

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Shouldn't that be 'It changes depending on my mood'? Whatever, I chose that one.

i do believe that was the subtle use of humor