Originally posted by Bun Bun
What i can see thats "bad" about it is that it could end badly.. like i said at 18 you are just noticeing what is out there. and their are lots of temtations.
Then...your relationship probably isnt going to work out marriage or not if thats the case...
If you found someone who you love beyond anything else, both were financially secure, had somewhere to live, and all the rest, and you were 18, why would you not just go ahead? Whats stopping you, apart from 'not having enough experience in the world and so on'.
I know someone who's 20 and married, at first I thought it was too young, but then I realised they are both 'set' in life, job wise, and so on, and that actually, they're both very lucky to have settled as early as they have. Why wait until you're in your late 20s to get married, I'd consider that a waste 🙂
Originally posted by K.Diddy
What benefits do males get from it? 😕
um boredom and fights after 3 months of it, no more sex, and you're stuck with that girl
Originally posted by Nevermind
It was stupid posting it in the first place.Marriage shows your commitment to a person by bonding with each other and your worldly possessions.
he's not use to sarcasm I see 😕
Originally posted by PeterGriffin
Then...your relationship probably isnt going to work out marriage or not if thats the case...If you found someone who you love beyond anything else, both were financially secure, had somewhere to live, and all the rest, and you were 18, why would you not just go ahead? Whats stopping you, apart from 'not having enough experience in the world and so on'.
I know someone who's 20 and married, at first I thought it was too young, but then I realised they are both 'set' in life, job wise, and so on, and that actually, they're both very lucky to have settled as early as they have. Why wait until you're in your late 20s to get married, I'd consider that a waste 🙂
Well i see your point. If they are settled and have money and a great job then go ahead do what you please. But the experience level will most likly be a big bump in the road for them. I mean at 18 you are not even at your prime yet.
Originally posted by PeterGriffin
Then...your relationship probably isnt going to work out marriage or not if thats the case...If you found someone who you love beyond anything else, both were financially secure, had somewhere to live, and all the rest, and you were 18, why would you not just go ahead? Whats stopping you, apart from 'not having enough experience in the world and so on'.
I know someone who's 20 and married, at first I thought it was too young, but then I realised they are both 'set' in life, job wise, and so on, and that actually, they're both very lucky to have settled as early as they have. Why wait until you're in your late 20s to get married, I'd consider that a waste 🙂
how many 18 year olds do you know settled down in life, with a job to support a family and a place to live in?
Originally posted by Bun Bun
Well i see your point. If they are settled and have money and a great job then go ahead do what you please. But the experience level will most likly be a big bump in the road for them. I mean at 18 you are not even at your prime yet.
But whats the difficulties of lack of experience? Lack of experience for what? The only difference is that you both wear a ring and sign a piece of paper, theres no difference than if you were bf/gf, except you have a secure life together once you've committed to each other. Plus the difficulties, you would face together...not too hard.
Originally posted by Ladyluck
I still think marriage is a little pointless. 😬
Maybe...like I just said, nothing but a ring and a legal binding piece of paper, but if you love each other, you'd want that 'official' bonding of each other right?
Originally posted by Bun Bun
As do I but society seems to think its "required"
Yeah 😬 I just think a little peice of paper doesn't prove you love someone more or are more commited to them. It's silly. But if people want to get married, they can go right ahead.
Originally posted by Nevermind
For some one I'm sure gets a lot of proposals it must be! 😛
Haha no way😛
I see it as too young, it just depends on who you ask.
Personally, I decided I will wait until I'm done with college to get married. But, I am 17, and I am in a very serious relationship right now. I don't see a problem with that, I'm just waiting until I finish college to get married, and he respects that.