PLEASE help me to feel better...

i'm having a little trouble here....

my ex boyfriend was and is suicidal and depressed and he wont leave me alone. like, he keeps texting me and calling me! i told him i wanted to still be friends, but WTF? i didn't really mean it! ...well, i guess i sorta did, but that's not the point...

then the guy i want sooooo bad (and we've been friends since 1st grade and went out and then he went out with my best friend) was helping me through my breakup and i was helping him with his also (he was dumped by a friggin middle-schooler!) and then he called me up one night at 2am and was drunk off his ass and he asked me if i wanted to be his girlfriend and he told me to say "no" so im like "uh...no?" and he's like okay, and then i told him not to call me till he soberd up. THe next morning he called me and apologiesd and asked me not to tell anyone and i'm like "okay, kyle (that's his name) i'm ur friend, i wont tell anyone, i PROMISE." After that, we have been kinda textin eachother off and on (for a few weeks), but he hasn't responded to any of my messages for a month and i don't know what to do.

...btw, just before he started not responding, i thought that he was mad at me and then he texted me "i'm not mad at you at all, my life has just been really confusing and crazy lately, i'll call you this weekend or monday at latest" ..... he hasn't called!!! ?????

ur distressed friend, meg

"i wanted to still be friends, but WTF? i didn't really mean it! "

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Originally posted by $noopbert
"i wanted to still be friends, but WTF? i didn't really mean it! "

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come on, don't give me that face, NO ONE EVER MEANS IT!!!!!

Originally posted by $noopbert
"i wanted to still be friends, but WTF? i didn't really mean it! "

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Originally posted by AlkalineTrioRox
come on, don't give me that face, NO ONE EVER MEANS IT!!!!!

Originally posted by $noopbert
That's sad.

how is it sad? it's true. *starts to cry*

*stops crying*

i'm sorry, it just hurts...

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He still likes you. Be nice to him until he gets over you.

Oh and he's an idiot for being suicidal.

Originally posted by AlkalineTrioRox
how is it sad? it's true. *starts to cry*

*stops crying*

i'm sorry, it just hurts...

As for the depressed friend, if you have any respect for him whatsoever you'll try to help him through it.

And for the guy, he either lied to you or has forgotten, so try calling him or going to see him.

Originally posted by Flamboyant4Life
He still likes you. Be nice to him until he gets over you.

Oh and he's an idiot for being suicidal.

i know...and thanks for the advice... 🙁 🙂

Originally posted by $noopbert
That's seriously the most pathetic lie I've ever heard. Don't ever, ever tell yourself that crock of shit, and don't tell others that either. It's the cowards way out, to avoid them. Unless you're a coward.

As for the depressed friend, if you have any respect for him whatsoever you'll try to help him through it.

And for the guy, he either lied to you or has forgotten, so try calling him or going to see him.

wait. what's the most pathetic lie you've ever heard?

Originally posted by AlkalineTrioRox
wait. what's the most pathetic lie you've ever heard?

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Hun, try explaining the situation a little more clearly. It's a bit difficult for us to see what's going on, remember we don't know any of you.

Originally posted by AlkalineTrioRox
come on, don't give me that face, NO ONE EVER MEANS IT!!!!!

Ive always meant it.

The guy who isnt calling you prbably lied to you, kind of like you lied to your ex. If you're feeling depressed thats more than likely how you made him feel, except the difference is, that he's suicidal and could use a friend more.

..erm

Originally posted by $noopbert
"i wanted to still be friends, but WTF? i didn't really mean it! "

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Originally posted by H. S. 6
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Originally posted by Sanctuary
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Originally posted by AlkalineTrioRox
come on, don't give me that face, NO ONE EVER MEANS IT!!!!!