Originally posted by Lana
My hair is only slightly wavy so as long as I brush it once it's dry, it doesn't tangle.And I don't necessarily mean changing how you look -- I mean changing who you are as a person.
I tend to have very little confidence in myself, but a lot of it is because I am very shy (though much less than I used to be), and am quite a geek, which led me to be picked on a lot in school. It didn't help either that people called me fat because holy crap, I've got breasts and hips and don't have the figure of a boy. But I'm past being effected by that sort of thing -- who I am is who I am and if you cannot accept that, then I will not have anything to do with you.
Meh I grew fed up with it and cut it all off, it's just below the ears now, no more problems.
Well sure, if people use makeup as some sort of mask to alter their personalities ie the shy fat girl with braces becomes turbo ***** when tons of mascara is added, well that's just wrong.
Respectable that you've reached that point. Although being out of high school definitely helps.