too bad when you're 14 you don't know what you want. You can't be commited from 14 till the end of your life, especially when you live the states or in the UK. Thats like saying, "I love you so much" to the first boyfriend you ever had, when you never really loved them. You thought you did, but you don't even know what love is. I'm 14, and I'm definetly not getting married until I'm at least 24. Any earlier is ridiculous. Not every one pulls of a dumb Romeo and Juliet scenario.
Originally posted by silver_tears
Bullshit, I've read a story of this couple who have just celebrated their 80th anniversary, she was 14 when they married, he was 18.
80 years people, that's love.
Do you think that's normal, or just a single one-off case?
I'd think the latter, myself.
I'm a fan of love and all myself, but also common sense.
Originally posted by LethalFemme
I gotta admit I'm a little jealous.
really? Well I'm the same age as Rae, but honestly I'm not jealous. Is she ready for that much commitment with the society there is today? I know I'm not. Plus theres education that comes into play, and their parents, and just a bunch of other stuff. Grow up, and learn what you need. Don't trust teenage puppy love.
Originally posted by SelphieT
yeah, thats one.Got anymore? Or you wanna make some up for me?
Yeah, so what? 50% of all marriages end in divorce anyways.
Yea cause that's what I invest my time in, I make up stories to entertain people 🤨
How about you give me one story of people who married at 14 and didn't make it?
Yea, and it's more like 38 percent, and going down, since fewer people are getting married nowadays. Nice try though.
Originally posted by SelphieT
really? Well I'm the same age as Rae, but honestly I'm not jealous. Is she ready for that much commitment with the society there is today? I know I'm not. Plus theres education that comes into play, and their parents, and just a bunch of other stuff. Grow up, and learn what you need. Don't trust teenage puppy love.
I'm just kinda jealous and fully happy for her but, I have to ask how old is Dustin? Also the parent thing had me wondering too.
Originally posted by silver_tears
Bullshit, I've read a story of this couple who have just celebrated their 80th anniversary, she was 14 when they married, he was 18.
80 years people, that's love.
I've been wanting to get married since eighth grade, but it doesn't mean I can really rush off into something blind, I'm cautious as well.
Originally posted by silver_tears
Yea cause that's what I invest my time in, I make up stories to entertain people 🤨
How about you give me one story of people who married at 14 and didn't make it?Yea, and it's more like 38 percent, and going down, since fewer people are getting married nowadays. Nice try though.
haha, well from where I'm from its 50%. Plus, my parents are divorced. Are yours? It hurts. But you probably wouldn't care anyways.
Well, I've heard stories where people who are in their 30's married little 14 year olds. I'm not going to ask them how its going. I can understand if your religion entitles getting married at an early age, but for modern society, its not necessary. I'm not going to get married at such a young age, its ridiculous. Maybe first I'll learn what the real world is like, and take if from there. I recommend that for RaeRox.