"you don't know how lovely you are"

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"you don't know how lovely you are"

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so my mom and I haven't been talking to each other for like almost 2 days now. πŸ™

I hate it

I hate it

I hate it.

I love her so much. And I hate that we fight. We don't always at all. We're very close, more like friends than mother and daughter...but every once in a while when there is a conflict it takes on forms like this...where we act more like friends do instead of parent and kid. haha.

But yeah...I'm sick of it...Its over and I'm cool and calmed down. I just want to make up.😬 *sigh* I hate hurting her...I hate just all of this...blah

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Re: "you don't know how lovely you are"

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
hhmp.
πŸ™

so my mom and I haven't been talking to each other for like almost 2 days now. πŸ™

I hate it

I hate it

I hate it.

I love her so much. And I hate that we fight. We don't always at all. We're very close, more like friends than mother and daughter...but every once in a while when there is a conflict it takes on forms like this...where we act more like friends do instead of parent and kid. haha.

But yeah...I'm sick of it...Its over and I'm cool and calmed down. I just want to make up.😬 *sigh* I hate hurting her...I hate just all of this...blah

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Your like me but opposite. 😐

Edited: This was rude of me not saying I hope you feel better and everything goes great with you and your mom... so... I hope you feel better and everything goes great with you and your mom.

Sorry to hear that.

Re: Re: "you don't know how lovely you are"

Originally posted by The Phantom
Your like me but opposite. 😐

a girl?

Re: "you don't know how lovely you are"

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
hhmp.
πŸ™

so my mom and I haven't been talking to each other for like almost 2 days now. πŸ™

I hate it

I hate it

I hate it.

I love her so much. And I hate that we fight. We don't always at all. We're very close, more like friends than mother and daughter...but every once in a while when there is a conflict it takes on forms like this...where we act more like friends do instead of parent and kid. haha.

But yeah...I'm sick of it...Its over and I'm cool and calmed down. I just want to make up.😬 *sigh* I hate hurting her...I hate just all of this...blah

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πŸ™

You should tell her now you feel, right now! What if you don't, and later today she gets hit by a bus or crushed by a freeway on-ramp during an earthquake? You'd regret it for the rest of your life. πŸ™

How do I start talking to her?

πŸ™ I don't know what to say, but just bring something up and try to have an innocent conversation...that'll open up for more talking.

Re: Re: "you don't know how lovely you are"

Originally posted by -Tired Hiker-
You should tell her now you feel, right now! What if you don't, and later today she gets hit by a bus or crushed by a freeway on-ramp during an earthquake? You'd regret it for the rest of your life. πŸ™

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DON'T talk that way you insensitive bastard!
😠 😠

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
How do I start talking to her?

give her a card, leave it somewhere for her to read before you talk. or a gift like flowers.

Originally posted by The Pict
a girl?
Nah. I'm horrible with my mom.
Originally posted by Punkyhermy
How do I start talking to her?
Whatever you feel right. I normally would just bring it up and talk about it. But.... That's just me.

Re: Re: Re: "you don't know how lovely you are"

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
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DON'T talk that way you insensitive bastard!
😠 😠

i think he was just trying to point out what could happen if you don't talk to your mother. i don't think he was trying to upset you.

Try writing her a letter or note or something.

I fight with my mom almost constantly but we usually get over it pretty fast.

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
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DON'T talk that way you insensitive bastard!
😠 😠
He's telling the truth. It wasn't being insensitive really.

Originally posted by The Phantom
Nah. I'm horrible with my mom.

Whatever you feel right. I normally would just bring it up and talk about it. But.... That's just me.

I'm not usually horrible with my mom at ALL.πŸ˜•

hmm...I dunno..it would feel awkward...I'm not good at this...because it doesn't happen with us very often...so I dunno what to do...

Edit: That sucks. But things will get better.

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
I'm not usually horrible with my mom at ALL.πŸ˜•

hmm...I dunno..it would feel awkward...I'm not good at this...because it doesn't happen with us very often...so I dunno what to do...

Yea.... can I have what you have with your mother with my mother please?

Originally posted by Lana
Try writing her a letter or note or something.

I fight with my mom almost constantly but we usually get over it pretty fast.

hm...Its hard for us because we almost always agree on things and get along great. We're like best friends or something...so when something like this happens...I guess we both don't know how to deal with it...😬

hmm...I dunno if I wanna do that...its just not my kind of thing...πŸ˜•

that your both fight means that you both care for eachother a great deal.
stick to your guns but apologise for hurting her then agree to disagree.
at least your mom loves you
and that is always good
some people would kill (so to speak) for the type of relationship u have with your mom. (me)
i hope things will turn out well.

Originally posted by natashia
that your both fight means that you both care for eachother a great deal.
stick to your guns but apologise for hurting her then agree to disagree.
at least your mom loves you
and that is always good
some people would kill (so to speak) for the type of relationship u have with your mom. (me)
i hope things will turn out well.
And me.

Originally posted by natashia
that your both fight means that you both care for eachother a great deal.
stick to your guns but apologise for hurting her then agree to disagree.
at least your mom loves you
and that is always good
some people would kill (so to speak) for the type of relationship u have with your mom. (me)
i hope things will turn out well.

thanks.
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I know this. And I really, genuinely love and respect her so much...she is awesome...amazing...been there and done so much for me. And I know and appreciate that...

I just wish she knew how much she means to me...We aren't very obvious with affection like other parent and children are. It just how our relationship is...and there are times when I feel that she doesn't know how much I treasure and value her...

and this fight is eating me up inside. I'm not used to not talking to her...certainly not for this long...and I don;t know how to make up without feeling very awkward... πŸ˜•