the girl i love ( i need ur help ladies)
hey i need some help out there i dont care if this sounds pathetic theres this girl i like and have liked for a long time and i think she knows it i used to date her but then i broke up with her(stupidest thing i ever did) but we still stayed friends and talked alot and stuff and i asked her out once and she said no ur like my brother(she ment we were so close i guess) is there any way i could get her to fall back in love with me ladies i need ur help
There is absolutely no chance, not to sound mean or anything, but once she's fallen out of love she'll never fall back into it with you. We chicks are of the belief that love should be a certai big explosion and should be fireworks and waves crashing, going from being friends who've dated before to dating again is not appealing, imo anyways. I suppose there are different opinions and all, but I honestly think you've no chance 😬
Originally posted by frylockmaybe shes a hillbilly and shes into that stuff....
hey i need some help out there i dont care if this sounds pathetic theres this girl i like and have liked for a long time and i think she knows it i used to date her but then i broke up with her(stupidest thing i ever did) but we still stayed friends and talked alot and stuff and i asked her out once and she said no ur like my brother(she ment we were so close i guess) is there any way i could get her to fall back in love with me ladies i need ur help
Re: the girl i love ( i need ur help ladies)
Originally posted by frylockDude. Don't let any of these people get you down. I can't believe how discouraging they are.
hey i need some help out there i dont care if this sounds pathetic theres this girl i like and have liked for a long time and i think she knows it i used to date her but then i broke up with her(stupidest thing i ever did) but we still stayed friends and talked alot and stuff and i asked her out once and she said no ur like my brother(she ment we were so close i guess) is there any way i could get her to fall back in love with me ladies i need ur help
The key to winning a woman's heart comes from many simple pieces. Things the woman desires but never gets enough of.
Some of these things are:
1.) Spontaneity - do things for her at random moments. Since you aren't technically dating try to do small things here and there. Listen closely because there's a fine line between being romantic and being obsessive. She'll let you know the difference. Right now just focus on the little things you can do for her. If she says she likes a song burn it onto a disc for her if she doesn't have it. Little things here and there add up.
2.) Charm - smile all the time. And be nice to others!! Seriously. Don't be too nice but at least attempt to be friendly to everyone and I mean everyone you encounter. I don't care if you like them or not.
3.) Attentiveness - when she's talking the world stops. Period. Nobody else matters. Nothing else matters. You hang on every word she says, and make eye contact.
4.) Pressence - make time for her. Get out there and arrange for you to do things with her. Since you aren't dating then I recommend arranging group events. Invite some of her friends and some of your friends. If you don't have a mutual interest group then you might have to get creative.
5.) Attractiveness - when was the last time you worked out? Do you jog? Do you lift weights? Despite what most women will say a man's looks do matter. They may say it doesn't but it really couldn't hurt either way.
Now these aren't the only ways to her heart but it's not a bad start. There are certainly a lot more things you can do. I recommend reading the book The Five Love Languages.
That's all for now. PM me if you need anything else.
Originally posted by Itzak
No. Sorry to say it but now that she's seen that side of you, it's a little hard for her to think of you the way she used to. 😬 The only thing you can really do is be her friend, and learn from the experience.
Good advice for this situation.
Originally posted by Psyquis52
Dude. Don't let any of these people get you down. I can't believe how discouraging they are.The key to winning a woman's heart comes from many simple pieces. Things the woman desires but never gets enough of.
Some of these things are:
1.) Spontaneity - do things for her at random moments. Since you aren't technically dating try to do small things here and there. Listen closely because there's a fine line between being romantic and being obsessive. She'll let you know the difference. Right now just focus on the little things you can do for her. If she says she likes a song burn it onto a disc for her if she doesn't have it. Little things here and there add up.2.) Charm - smile all the time. And be nice to others!! Seriously. Don't be too nice but at least attempt to be friendly to everyone and I mean everyone you encounter. I don't care if you like them or not.
3.) Attentiveness - when she's talking the world stops. Period. Nobody else matters. Nothing else matters. You hang on every word she says, and make eye contact.
4.) Pressence - make time for her. Get out there and arrange for you to do things with her. Since you aren't dating then I recommend arranging group events. Invite some of her friends and some of your friends. If you don't have a mutual interest group then you might have to get creative.
5.) Attractiveness - when was the last time you worked out? Do you jog? Do you lift weights? Despite what most women will say a man's looks do matter. They may say it doesn't but it really couldn't hurt either way.
Now these aren't the only ways to her heart but it's not a bad start. There are certainly a lot more things you can do. I recommend reading the book The Five Love Languages.
That's all for now. PM me if you need anything else.
Good general advice.