It's probably not socially acceptible in most American circles, no. I haven't taken a survey or something, but if your boss is coming over for dinner, I'd shove your copy of Bondage Fairies somewhere he's not likely to stumble accross it.
As for whether it's wrong, no, I'd say it isn't. In fact, you could make a strong case for anime porn being the most morally acceptible porn in existence, since it doesn't involve real people except in the voice department, and therefore you don't have to worry about whether it's exploitive to the people involved.
(anime is just Japanese cartoons, debbiejo)