Yet, she has the right to express her opinion doesn't she? Whether things are true or untrue from both sides, the fact of the matter is that her opinion belongs to her. She has the right to say how she feels, there's no rule against what human emotions are or are not allowed.
Both sides need to realize that they have differing opinions, and rather than engaging in a petty, childish war in which both sides stand to lose, it's time to bury the hatchet, strike an accord and move on. There are more important things to discuss than the old, this person said, or that person said.
It's time to stop trying to change one another's sites and or members and open our eyes to realize that we are different, pure and simple. Let's celebrate our differences and work together to make both KTTC and KMC a place where all members can co-exist peacefully. There are no words whether they're kind or cruel that can alter any one person's personal opinion. Accept the difference, and go back to your lives. For pete's sake, be a force for good, because the circle of blame is a circle. There's no end, and it's getting to the point where it's sickening.