Originally posted by Charmed_Phoebe
yes, but I get jealous a lot too. hehe for example I hate it when my love flirts with other girls oh wow that makes me SO JEALOUS!
Originally posted by debbiejo
I'd hate that too...... 😠
hmph, seems obvious to me why he really does it, if you care for what i have to say. I think he does it for you to assue him your still in love with him. Bu then, what do i know?
Originally posted by Kaled
hmph, seems obvious to me why he really does it, if you care for what i have to say. I think he does it for you to assue him your still in love with him. Bu then, what do i know?
😛 I know thats why; hehe. He has told me that is why, plus he says I look cute when I'm mad. But I still get jealous even though I know hes doing it to get a reaction out of me🙂
Originally posted by Kaled
well, thats good 😊 where did you meet?
we met at work, we both still work there and its been over a year haha. Not a very good place to work and we plan on getting new jobs soon, but it was cute🙂 I was dating someone else at the time, but I did not love him. When I met my boyfriend now, he taught me how it felt to love. 😛
Originally posted by Charmed_Phoebe
we met at work, we both still work there and its been over a year haha. Not a very good place to work and we plan on getting new jobs soon, but it was cute🙂 I was dating someone else at the time, but I did not love him. When I met my boyfriend now, he taught me how it felt to love. 😛
cool, aww thats beautiful 😊
i wish you a happy and long relationship 🙂
Here is a Greek story, try to picture this story as it's told. It's been awhile since I heard it, so please don't get upset if it's not exactly like the original. As a side note, I wish that cartoons were teaching kids moral stories, not just "witchcraft" power games. Aesop comes to mind, I wish Disney had Saturday cartoons about the various stories fro Aesop, they really teach you about human emotion, power games, trickery, and other issues that comes up in life when dealing with people.
The old Greek Story:
Two friends are walking side by side, the one on the right is named ENVY, on his left is JEALOUSY.
They are good friends and always walked hand in hand with each other.
One day, during their daily walk together, they run into a Genie. They are both shocked but very happy, as this is their lucky day. The Genie bows to them and says "I am at your service to bless you, today, I can offer you both a great blessing, would you like to know more?" JEALOUSY and ENVY quickly agree at the same time.
Genie decides to proceed. "You can have anything you want, I offer you a worm-hole, just walk right in, and whatever you wish for, the other person will have twice as much....HOWEVER, only one person can go first."
UHM, Jealousy and Envy stare at each other. Envy speaks, and says "I'll go first", Jealousy gleefully says "YES", expecting a good return from Envy.
The Genie sets up the worm-hole, and Envy slowly and hesitantly steps toward the hole...thinks for a moment, would Jealousy share the double portion of the blessing? Uhm..., Envy makes a decision, as soon as Envy enters the hole, he plucks out one eye.
Jealousy runs right after Envy.
And there they are together on the other side, Jealousy is lookiing around to see what double blessing Envy has given....and finds out that Envy is with one eye, and Jealousy is left with none.
As Jealousy was blinded by Envy.
(Envy wanted Jealousy to have twice as much as he did, and since Envy knew that Jealousy would end up with more....Envy made it so that Jealousy was left with less...so, he made it so that Jealousy would be blind forever..yet, Envy would always keep one eye...and Jealousy will alwasy lose both...).
So, it's better not to ever be with envy or jealousy. However, it is better to be envious then to be jealous, an envious person still has "sight" a jealous person doesn't...and if a person nurses their envy long enough, jealousy is right behind envy.
Ok, just to say it again...
A Jealous person always wants more then another person
An envious person always wants the other person to have less.
Usually, a person starts off as envious before then get jealous. They think you shouldn't be as pretty, popular, rich, loved, intelligent...and then, later, if they nurse this idea long enough, they become jealous, and they wish that they had twice as much beauty, friends, money, status, intelligence...and they usually become "blinded" by this emotion and this has bad/negative consequences for the party involved or anyone who cares for them.