Sex Party

Originally posted by Vinny Valentine
🙄 The Kiss Smilies, constant talking about how he got Me Warned when nothing of the sort happened, Acting like we're great friends.etc etc (I can go on for awhile). It's all pouring salt onto flesh wounds. And this hurling abuse is bullshit, I was alot more harsh with Diddy, and no mod ever really truly got involved with that. Hell, alot of people get it alot worse then Eclipso here.

It's the fact he's making everyone around he irratated, that it gets back to me. I had him ignored for awhile, and it didn't change a thing. People still ended up bringing it all back to me.

And those other people rather need to learn to control themselves.

Really, I'd be willing to bet that if other people hadn't insisted on getting involved, this whole problem WOULD have died down by now.

Originally posted by Lana
And those other people rather need to learn to control themselves.

Really, I'd be willing to bet that if other people hadn't insisted on getting involved, this whole problem WOULD have died down by now.

They don't start it though, thats the thing. If you watched, it was eclipso just not going under common courtesy that started the chain reaction.

I can honestly say if he stopped talking/posting at me and made his own social thread instead of using mine. This whole thing WOULD die down, and I would calm down. I just don't like what he's doing towards me, and the actions he's doing.

If he backed off, I would too.

Originally posted by Vinny Valentine
🙄 The Kiss Smilies, constant talking about how he got Me Warned when nothing of the sort happened, Acting like we're great friends.etc etc (I can go on for awhile).

Except NONE of that happened here. All that happened is that he made a few posts and you flamed him.

When he kept bothering you with the unwanted compliments, Storm stepped in. So stop playing the martyr.

Keep a sense of proportion.

Originally posted by Vinny Valentine
They don't start it though, thats the thing. If you watched, it was eclipso just not going under common courtesy that started the chain reaction.

I can honestly say if he stopped talking/posting at me and made his own social thread instead of using mine. This whole thing WOULD die down, and I would calm down. I just don't like what he's doing towards me, and the actions he's doing.

If he backed off, I would too.

See, now this is just reminding me of the whole "they were mean to me so I can can be mean back" mentality. Sorry, but in no reality do two wrongs make a right, and if you retaliate it puts you also at fault.

And other people who started in had absolutely nothing to do with what originally happened, either.

Social threads are a dime a dozen here. The whole point of them is for people to be social together, and if there's someone posting you don't like...well, can't really do much about it. But there's really no excuse for people going on the attack just because someone was posting in a thread they frequent.

I wasn't at all going to get involved in this, and was going to avoid it altogether, but as the crap has carried into MY forums and I'm constantly being pestered about it on MSN, I've about hit the end of my patience with it.

I'd say more but I have a cute fuzzy cat sitting on my lap and he's a bit distracting 😛

Originally posted by Lana
See, now this is just reminding me of the whole "they were mean to me so I can can be mean back" mentality. Sorry, but in no reality do two wrongs make a right, and if you retaliate it puts you also at fault.

And other people who started in had absolutely nothing to do with what originally happened, either.

Social threads are a dime a dozen here. The whole point of them is for people to be social together, and if there's someone posting you don't like...well, can't really do much about it. But there's really no excuse for people going on the attack just because someone was posting in a thread they frequent.

I wasn't at all going to get involved in this, and was going to avoid it altogether, but as the crap has carried into MY forums and I'm constantly being pestered about it on MSN, I've about hit the end of my patience with it.

I'd say more but I have a cute fuzzy cat sitting on my lap and he's a bit distracting 😛

If someone is doing something that truly irritates and bugs another member, and they've asked them to stop. Nicely. WHICH I HAVE DONE. You can check, I have many times 😛 .... It's only fair he give it a chance, and try to avoid me as the mods told me to do to him. But if the mods told him to Avoid me... And he stopped, I'd back off into my thread, and be happy with my clique.

I wish my cat was in my room yawn

Originally posted by Ushgarak
Except NONE of that happened here. All that happened is that he made a few posts and you flamed him.

When he kept bothering you with the unwanted compliments, Storm stepped in. So stop playing the martyr.

Keep a sense of proportion.

And when Storm stepped in, he argued with her and didn't do what she said...But nothing happened to him there. Also, he HAS been doing it here, in the OTF. Just less in this thread, then a few other threads in the forum. Look around, you'll find them 😐

I STILL WANT TO JOIN THIS THREAD!!! You know, after all of the arguing dies down.

Originally posted by Ordained
I STILL WANT TO JOIN THIS THREAD!!! You know, after all of the arguing dies down.

Fine you're in.

Whoo. Thank you.

Originally posted by Vinny Valentine
And when Storm stepped in, he argued with her and didn't do what she said...But nothing happened to him there. Also, he HAS been doing it here, in the OTF. Just less in this thread, then a few other threads in the forum. Look around, you'll find them 😐

No he didn't. he kept posting, sure, so if you think the object was that he never posts near you again, then you are wrong,. But he DID stop with the continuous unwanted compliments.

He didn't even post to YOU in this thread. He just posted in it.

I have been looking around and my opinion is the same.

Originally posted by Ushgarak
No he didn't. he kept posting, sure, so if you think the object was that he never posts near you again, then you are wrong,. But he DID stop with the continuous unwanted compliments.

He didn't even post to YOU in this thread. He just posted in it.

I have been looking around and my opinion is the same.

Want me to go quote them>? I know where a few are the happened today and he continues to do so. To say I'm outragesly flaming and baiting and bashing though is absurd too. The only time I did it was in this thread, when I told him to "Get the **** out and leave me alone". I'm not stupid, I didn't think it was to stop him from ever posting at me again. I just want him to leave me alone... Well, at least in this thread. I don't really care about the others. This is just the thread I come onto KMC to have fun with my close friends, not be irritated by.

Two of my friends left KMC in the last hour.

Super.

Originally posted by Vinny Valentine
People still ended up bringing it all back to me.

Not really Eclipso's fault, that, is it?

I'm not against defending yourself if someone attacks you, especially since the mods here never really know when to step in or when not to step in, or what rules do or don't apply, but if you are going to defend yourself, make sure that is what it is.

If he disses you, and you launch a constant tirade of insults back, you are at fault also.

-AC

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Not really Eclipso's fault, that, is it?

I'm not against defending yourself if someone attacks you, especially since the mods here never really know when to step in or when not to step in, or what rules do or don't apply, but if you are going to defend yourself, make sure that is what it is.

If he disses you, and you launch a constant tirade of insults back, you are at fault also.

-AC

Yet, I never actually did send a haul of insults back.

I asked him to leave my thread, and leave me alone. After a week of him continually saying he could post wherever he likes, I finally did tell him to "GET THE **** OUT" ... Of course, it was sheer anger at the time.

And I cant' even use the personal threats to me off KMC, because they weren't on KMC.... So it doesn't really work. But thats just another reason I'm pissed and don't want him always there trying to be cheery with me, after I saw his real side and he told me what he'd do to me in real life off KMC.

I'm not insulting anyone. I just have the right to post where ever I wish to.

Lana your a cat person? What type of kitty is it?

Originally posted by Eclipso
I'm not insulting anyone. I just have the right to post where ever I wish to.

Lana your a cat person? What type of kitty is it?

You imply it differently.

Originally posted by Vinny Valentine
Yet, I never actually did send a haul of insults back.

I asked him to leave my thread, and leave me alone. After a week of him continually saying he could post wherever he likes, I finally did tell him to "GET THE **** OUT" ... Of course, it was sheer anger at the time.

And I cant' even use the personal threats to me off KMC, because they weren't on KMC.... So it doesn't really work. But thats just another reason I'm pissed and don't want him always there trying to be cheery with me, after I saw his real side and he told me what he'd do to me in real life off KMC.

Realistically, what can he do? I'm not sure what he knows about you, but if he knows nothing he can use to hunt you down, what's the big deal?

I understand it must not have been pleasant, I just don't see why a big deal is being made. I don't have enough digits to count the amount of people on here who honestly do need execution, but you just ignore them.

-AC

I've taken a few of these to PM's.

Originally posted by Ordained
Can't we all just get along. I'm not feeling the love. Increase the peace and stop the violence. Make love, not war.

Ordained I agree with you completely

Originally posted by Strangelove
Bah. Telling him off is worth getting a temp ban

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