😖mart:
I dunno love's not something you can plan, and if it does happen and you keep questioning its validity, eventually it'll die out.
You can't go in and be like "Am I really in love, but what happens next, what should I do, how can I be sure?"
You just be, you're half of 2 and if you second guess and hesitate you miss out imo.
Just happens shrug
Originally posted by LethalFemme
Is it because you feel he loves you more than you do him?
No. There is no "he" of any sort involved in any of this. What I'm saying is that jsut the idea of "falling" in love scares me. This is a thought independant of any particular male specimen at the moment and has been for oh a long while. And I don't see this changing anytime soon either. I'm merely trying to analyze my state of mind as initiated by that post.
Originally posted by silver_tears
😖mart:I dunno love's not something you can plan, and if it does happen and you keep questioning its validity, eventually it'll die out.
You can't go in and be like "Am I really in love, but what happens next, what should I do, how can I be sure?"
You just be, you're half of 2 and if you second guess and hesitate you miss out imo.
Just happens shrug
Just happens, eh?
well...i'll have to see it when it does then...
Originally posted by Punkyhermy
No. There is no "he" of any sort involved in any of this. What I'm saying is that jsut the idea of "falling" in love scares me. This is a thought independant of any particular male specimen at the moment and has been for oh a long while. And I don't see this changing anytime soon either. I'm merely trying to analyze my state of mind as initiated by that post.
I think its because you're a person of facts and love is spontaneous and has none really.✅
Originally posted by Lana
This is very true. It can be scary, and hurt a lot if it doesn't work out...but it's a leap of faith you have to make and it is worth it.
mhhm..i can imagine and have seen people suffer. 😬 I guess I'm scared of getting hurt. I have been before. By nothing romantic mind you but by those who i thought were my "friends". Long story short, it left me pretty emotionally scarred. I went to great lengths trying to deal with that and have finally overcome it. So anything that asks for emotional attatchment i shy out of. Its been a crazy few years yes.
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Originally posted by Punkyhermy
Just happens, eh?well...i'll have to see it when it does then...
Pretty much. It's not something you can control, it just happens...and you can either go with it, or hide it.
And you know, going with it and seeing what happens is risky and might hurt if it doesn't work...but it's much better than hiding it and always wondering "what it".
Originally posted by Punkyhermy
mhhm..i can imagine and have seen people suffer. 😬 I guess I'm scared of getting hurt. I have been before. By nothing romantic mind you but by those who i thought were my "friends". Long story short, it left me pretty emotionally scarred. I went to great lengths trying to deal with that and have finally overcome it. So anything that asks for emotional attatchment i shy out of. Its been a crazy few years yes.
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I actually understand that quite a bit. I'm a very overemotional person, and due to having been betrayed by far too many people who were close to me, I have a very hard time trusting anyone...not to mention that I have non-existant self-esteem. I just tend to keep everything to myself to protect myself, I suppose. Only once in my life have I ever managed to tell someone I liked them...but oh am I glad I did.
Originally posted by Punkyhermy
mhhm..i can imagine and have seen people suffer. 😬 I guess I'm scared of getting hurt. I have been before. By nothing romantic mind you but by those who i thought were my "friends". Long story short, it left me pretty emotionally scarred. I went to great lengths trying to deal with that and have finally overcome it. So anything that asks for emotional attatchment i shy out of. Its been a crazy few years yes.
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I know exactly how you feel. You see and hear things and it can put you off but, you can't let fear control you. You hear about people getting killed, kidnapped, etc just walking down the street but, you're not gonna stay in the rest of your life. You have to get out there and just take chances.