Originally posted by Phucked UpNot if I reinvent the past
Not ex-fiancée, almost ex-fiancée. 😛 Get it right, German! shakefistI asked her and she said no...cause she ended up ****ing some other guy and got engaged to him.
And what do you mean "one of them"? detective She was the only person I've ever asked to marry me. 😛
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Originally posted by Outbound
How long ago was this? I had pm convos with her a few months ago, her excuse for not being around was work and study (believable excuses for a faker to make up anyway), but do you have any proof that LethalFemme's account is a fake, besides her not posting any 'proof' photos? I thought the whole 'innocent until proven guilty' was your thing?I like LF as a 'KMC friend', so of course I will defend her credibility until solid evidence comes up to suggest otherwise.
Well that's that, isn't it? You're defending her as a person you like, as Syren tried to. Specifically focusing on feelings that overwhelm your logic or reason. I'm neutral to her regarding how she acted here. I just have strong suspicion she was a faker.
Originally posted by Outbound
I was never given any reason to be suspicious. And how many people are fakers on here? Hardly any, because they get caught out as either socks or proven that they are not who they pretend to be. Ever met anyone on KMC before? Anyone could be stealing pics here.Lets say she was, at the very least, a real chick who just used someone else's photos. That would annoy me, but I wouldnt hate her for it, I'd still talk to her etc. The only difference is that my visual perception of her has changed, which is irrelevant because I talked to her before she even posted a photo.
Now if she was really some 55 year old guy looking for jollies, I would put the account on block and never associate with it again, because I'm talking to someone completely different who is acting as a chick.
I'm just saying, all anyone has on LethalFemme so far is just 'I feel dodgy about that person', no hard facts that the photos are definitely not her, no sock checks to prove its a sock, so until the account is caught out, I will give her the benefit of the doubt.
There's also the small fact that in 2008, when you are apparently snapping yourself at all hours of the day with a camera, you can provide a picture. It's irrelevant whether or not she "should" have to, the fact is, she could have easily, and despite various people asking and prompting, she couldn't. I know for a fact that someone who allegedly lived near her asked to meet, as they had both spoken of doing so, considering they were "friends". Femme kept weaselling out. Suuure you can say "Maybe she didn't wanna meet someone online.", but sooner or later you have to swallow the pill and admit she's very shady.
Furthermore, most of her pics were her mysteriously snapped at parties and whatever.
I don't "hate" her for it, I just think it's pathetic she'd do that. I also think it's remarkably naive and biased to say "Unless there's concrete proof I'll keep my options open.". The fact that none of us can confirm she is who she is after making some outrageously simply requests for a stone-cold proof picture, which could take all of five minutes, is surely proof enough.
-AC
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Well that's that, isn't it? You're defending her as a person you like, as Syren tried to. Specifically focusing on feelings that overwhelm your logic or reason. I'm neutral to her regarding how she acted here. I just have strong suspicion she was a faker.There's also the small fact that in 2008, when you are apparently snapping yourself at all hours of the day with a camera, you can provide a picture. It's irrelevant whether or not she "should" have to, the fact is, she could have easily, and despite various people asking and prompting, she couldn't. I know for a fact that someone who allegedly lived near her asked to meet, as they had both spoken of doing so, considering they were "friends". Femme kept weaselling out. Suuure you can say "Maybe she didn't wanna meet someone online.", but sooner or later you have to swallow the pill and admit she's very shady.
Furthermore, most of her pics were her mysteriously snapped at parties and whatever.
I don't "hate" her for it, I just think it's pathetic she'd do that. I also think it's remarkably naive and biased to say "Unless there's concrete proof I'll keep my options open.". The fact that none of us can confirm she is who she is after making some outrageously simply requests for a stone-cold proof picture, which could take all of five minutes, is surely proof enough.
-AC
You're completely right, of course. But I still feel the same. If she has faked her pictures then so be it, KMC's rid of another loser. But if she hasn't and she genuinely felt bullied enough to leave because of people demanding proof which she didn't want to provide, then I hope those people are ashamed of themselves.